The root cause of the chaos in society is actually caused by these two problems
Marriage has lost its integrity.
Nowadays, people no longer believe in true love and are skeptical about the integrity of marriage. Marriage is treated as a marketplace and loses its original intention and sincerity. This phenomenon is especially pronounced in the premarital phase of love. The recent sensational engagement incident has raised questions about the bottom line of love morality in society. In these cases, men have little chance of defense, which means that many innocent boys are forced to pay monetary compensation or go to jail. Even when some boys can clearly prove that they were not coerced, it is often difficult to get justice. Surprisingly, marriage agencies have also been involved in some of these cases. This is a truly alarming phenomenon. Perhaps, though, this is an opportunity to put pressure on boys to be more disciplined and to behave in purity before marriage. At the same time, girls should also be examined before marriage to ensure that they too can maintain their physical and mental integrity. Only in this way can this phenomenon be completely **. The problem of betrayal after marriage is equally serious. Even after being discovered, some people remain stubborn and believe that as long as they are thick-skinned, no one will be able to punish them. In some cases, there is little effect other than embarrassing the parties. Some of the victims did it, but their uncles got in the way. Some victims accept money from the cheating party, but are taken away by their uncle on the grounds of extortion. Even in the case of divorce, it is difficult to satisfy the victim with the division of property. As a result, these incidents have made many people doubt marriage, and some young people choose not to marry and not have children.
Housing becomes a problem for ordinary people.
Today, the housing problem has become a pain in the hearts of many people. High housing prices are the most prominent problem, as is the housing occupancy problem. A house is an important part of building a family and is closely related to starting a family. However, many people find that the house leaves them in debt. After paying off the mortgage each month, the remaining money is almost entirely used for basic living expenses, and there is no extra money. In the current employment situation, some people can't even afford to pay their mortgage. In addition, some problems such as unfinished buildings and housing quality problems also make many residents miserable because they do not know who to turn to to solve these problems. The property problem is also a headache, and now property has become an important issue in the lives of ordinary people. In the past, people were more worried about housing prices, but now they are more worried about the property management company in the community. There is no doubt that the quality of a property management company is crucial to the quality of life of residents. If you choose an incompetent property management company, living in such a community is undoubtedly asking for trouble. Therefore, under the pressure of various problems, some people have come to new conclusions. As long as they can rent, they don't buy a house. This way, they don't have to worry about dilapidated and quality issues, nor do they have to worry about asset management. If they are not satisfied, they move elsewhere to rent. In addition, the problem of house prices has always existed, and while we sometimes hear that house prices are going to be adjusted, they have not yet reached the right level. As a result, these problems have led many people to lose interest in housing and social vitality has suffered.
The cost of raising a child is getting higher.
Fertility has become a hot topic these days, as many young people choose not to marry and not have children. However, if this phenomenon is not improved, the population will continue to decline. However, young people also face many difficulties. After deducting living and entertainment expenses from their monthly salary, the cost of raising children has become a burden for them. Nowadays, taking care of children is no longer the mode of just eating in the past, but requires a lot of time and money. From birth, there is a wide variety of baby products and training courses. There is also the question of school choice, whose school district house appears in such an environment. While not necessary, what parent wants their child to fall behind others in these areas? As a parent, although you don't want your child to be the best, at least you don't want your child to become an ordinary worker in society. Therefore, whether it is in terms of energy or financial resources, many people choose not to have children with certain difficulties. This is an urgent issue that needs to be addressed.
In addition to the above three issues, there are other issues that also affect the lives of ordinary people. Without a home, a home is like a lentil without roots; Without a complete marriage, the family loses the cornerstone of stability; The cost of raising children is getting higher and higher, and many young people choose to give up having children. These problems are the result of social transformation and change, and need to be solved by the joint efforts of all sectors of society and individuals. Only in this way can society return to normal order and the people's living standards be improved.