The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and at the end of the year, there are many things to say, and there are many places to spend money, not only to buy all kinds of New Year's goods, but also to add new furniture, but also to prepare various gifts for visiting relatives and friends.
When it comes to spending money, everyone also knows that it is necessary to save money, so that a budget-conscious life will make the days more prosperous. However, the ancestors also left an old saying, that is, "people who are poor do not save three kinds of money, and if they have no money, they do not string three people", this proverb conveys a rich philosophy with its concise language.
It admonishes us to be selective in our spending when we are poor, and to avoid associating with certain people. So what are the three kinds of money that can't be saved, and which three types of people can't be strung together? Let's go down together, watch it early and benefit early.
This is also the experience of our ancestors, telling us that we are also particular about spending money, some money is saved in the province, and some money should be spent, especially the three kinds of money, which must not be saved.
The first is "emergency money": in life, we will always encounter sudden difficulties or emergencies, such as illness, accidents, etc. In these moments, we need to act in a timely manner to deal with the difficulties. If you are stingy with money at this point, it can lead to more serious consequences.
Especially some people, who usually have a cold and illness, are reluctant to spend money, and can always delay and delay, so they often spend more money later. It is estimated that there are many such examples around us. Therefore, the money for emergency relief cannot be saved.
The second is that "money for learning" cannot be saved: the power of knowledge is infinite. For people who want to improve themselves and increase their knowledge, it is necessary to invest in learning. Whether it is book knowledge or skills training, it requires a certain amount of financial investment.
Special attention should be paid to the money for children's education and education, which must not be saved. You know, saving money for study for the time being may mean giving up on a better future.
The third is that "filial piety to the elders' money" cannot be saved. Respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. It is our responsibility and obligation to be filial to our elders. As far as the financial situation allows, we should try our best to meet the needs of the elders and make them feel cared for.
For example, now that the Chinese New Year is coming soon, I have to buy some gifts for my parents when I go home, and by the way, I will also give some living expenses or pocket money. As the saying goes, "filial piety should be done as soon as possible, don't wait for the son to raise and not wait", everyone must remember this, otherwise it will be regretted later.
Its literal meaning is also very simple, it means that when you have no money, you should try to have less contact with three kinds of people, they refer to snobbish relatives, people who do not repay kindness, and people who do not distinguish between right and wrong. Let's take a look at each other here.
Snobbish relatives or friends. There are always some people in life who use money and status as the standard to measure interpersonal relationships, and this is the person who hates the poor and loves the rich.
When you are financially well-off, people will slap you. But when you become poor and have nothing, they can be cynical, alienated or even discriminatory. Socializing with such people will not only not get real care and support, but it may also bring more financial pressure to yourself.
Those who do not repay their kindness. There are always people in our lives who have helped us in times of difficulty. However, although some people accept help, they do not know how to be grateful and reciprocate, and only know how to take it blindly without knowing how to be grateful.
The ancestor also said, "A cup of rice raises grace, and a cup of rice raises hatred." Associating with such a person can lead to endless disappointment and pain. Therefore, when you don't have money, try to avoid associating with such people.
People who don't distinguish between right and wrong. Associating with such a person can lead to unnecessary strife and trouble. Therefore, when you have no money, you should try to avoid associating with such people to avoid unnecessary trouble for yourself.
This proverb from our ancestors not only guides our financial decisions, but also warns us about the choices we make in relationships. It reminds us to spend wisely in the face of poverty, but also to choose wisely who we associate with.
Only in this way can we find a way out of the difficult situation and lay a solid foundation for our life. So the words of the ancestors are quite reasonable, like visiting relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, we must also keep our eyes open and try to stay away from some unnecessary relatives and friends.
At the same time, we must also know how to invest, at least in filial piety to parents, education of children and emergency relief, money must not be saved.
Let us remember this advice from our ancestors and use it as a guide in life, and we will benefit immensely from following it and go further and more steadily on the road of life. February** Dynamic Incentive Program