Introduction:
Speaking of this week, it's really a treasure left by our ancestors. The hexagram in it is even more incredible, it is simply a "soft and strong" decision-making secret book. Today, I will take you to open this cheats book and see if we can also learn a trick and a half and be a "smart person" in life.
1. What is a hexagram?
Doesn't that sound lofty? Actually, it tells you how to walk and how to do things. To put it simply, it is to teach you how to deal with rigidity in a soft way in a complex world. This is not an ordinary "overcoming rigidity with softness", but "softness with rigidity", which is both principled and flexible.
Second, soft with rigid? Is this practicing Tai Chi?
Haha, don't say it, this soft and rigid is really a bit like Tai Chi. But we're not practicing boxing, we're practicing decision-making. Do you think, there are so many problems in life, if you hit it hard, then you can't hit your head and break the bloodstream? But if you learn to be soft and rigid, then you can be like a Tai Chi master, dialing thousands of pounds in four or two, and easily solve problems.
3. The wisdom of the hexagram is released.
1.Decision-making principles: Be principled and flexible. It's like when we usually eat, we have to eat meat to supplement nutrition, and eat vegetables to stay healthy. If you only eat meat and don't eat vegetables, then you won't become a chubby child? In the same way, if you only stick to principles and don't know how to be flexible, then you have to fall into the trap.
2.Decision-making method: Conform to the way of heaven, to put it bluntly, it is to follow the times. Times have changed, and you have to follow them. If you are still stuck in the old ways, then you must not be eliminated by the times? Therefore, we must always pay attention to current affairs and keep up with fashion trends, so that we can make decisions that are in line with the trend of the times.
Fourth, the actual combat exercise: soft and rigid to solve the problems of life.
Having said so much theory, let's have a practical exercise. For example, what should you do if you have an awkward relationship with someone in your family? Hard-hitting? That's not going to work, you have to use the art of decision-making with softness and rigidity. You can admit your mistakes (stick to your principles) and then find a good time to give a gift and apologize (be flexible). Wouldn't the problem be solved?
For example, if you encounter a problem in the workplace, you can solve it in the same way. You can analyze the problem and find a solution (stick to the principle) first, and then communicate and negotiate with your colleagues or leaders (be flexible). In this way, you will not only solve problems, but also earn the respect and trust of your colleagues and leaders.
5. Conclusion: Okay, that's all for today's lesson. I hope that everyone can become a "smart person" in life by learning the decision-making science of "softness and rigidity". However, this can only be known through practice. So, let's take action, apply what you've learned to real life, and see if you can solve the problems you encounter.
Finally, I will leave you a small homework: please solve a problem you have recently encountered in a soft and rigid way, and share your experience and feelings in the comment area! Looking forward to everyone's wonderful sharing!