Cheng Liya: As the years go by, when the other half dies and the children are far away, the loneliness of life comes to mind, which is a dilemma that many elderly people have to face. Today I want to share with you the story of a 72-year-old man whose name is Cheng Liya. Three years ago, she lost her beloved wife and her daughter lives far away. At the low point of her life, how did she find a new companion and retire with her three old sisters?
Cheng Liya's life was enriched by the presence of her wife and daughter, but her wife's sudden cerebral infarction left her alone. In the painful days, she found a friend who silently accompanied her - Lao Su. Lao Su's encouragement and companionship made Cheng Liya gradually come out of her loss. The two old sisters face loneliness together and gradually develop a friendship that supports each other.
Lao Su's cheerful personality became their spiritual pillar. At the invitation of a dancer, Cheng Liya stepped onto a new stage of life, learned to dance, and met two sisters who had similar experiences with them. The small group began to visit the morning market, the supermarket, and even go for a walk in the park together. Because they are both elderly people who live alone, they gradually get acquainted with each other and become friends who can rely on each other.
After a period of getting along, the four old sisters decided to retire together. In order to maintain their unity, they established three important rules. First of all, morning exercise and dancing are common activities for everyone, and the rest of the time is busy and does not interfere with each other. Secondly, everyone cooks together at noon and evening, and the fee AA system ensures fairness. In the end, helping each other is the best rule for them to get along, whether it is a small or big thing, they can get each other's support.
This kind of group pension method has lasted for more than three years, and the way the four old sisters get along is remarkable. They believe that this way of life gives them great happiness, breaks the loneliness, and makes life full of warmth and laughter. Whether it was making dumplings together or taking turns to accompany each other when they were sick, they all felt the power of caring for and helping each other.
In particular, the time for lunch and dinner has become a wonderful time that they look forward to every day. In the process, they not only solved the problem of eating, but more importantly, found a new meaning in life, and filled the lost companionship with friendship and mutual support.
Of course, this type of pension is not for everyone. First of all, everyone needs to be in relatively good physical condition and able to take care of themselves. Secondly, it is necessary to be tolerant and understanding enough in order to maintain a long-lasting friendship. Through their own efforts and the formulation of rules, Cheng Liya and her three sisters have successfully realized the group pension, and filled the emptiness of their later life with warmth and happiness.
Life is like a boat, and we need to help each other move forward. In old age, without the support of partners and children, group retirement becomes an enviable option. By caring for each other and helping each other, Cheng Liya and her three sisters have made life shine again. Perhaps, we can also draw some wisdom from their stories to add a touch of warmth to our later life.