When a Phoenix man went on a blind date, he found that the blind date was a wealthy person, owned four properties and was an only daughter, he was very satisfied with these conditions and expressed his willingness to be with him. However, the blind date woman unceremoniously rejected his proposal and said that she did not need to help the poor. This story shows the real problems in the blind date process and the independent attitude of women.
I am Ms. Cai, I am 35 years old this year, and I am known as the oldest leftover girl. All my friends are married, and I am the only one who has not yet found a suitable partner, but I am not in a hurry to get married. For me, not all women have toMarriageSingle life can also be exciting, especially for myselfEconomyIndependent and owns your own property. Despite this, my parents kept pushing me to get married, and they were worried that I was missing out on the best age group. Every time I go back to my hometown, my relatives and friends will persuade me that women don'tMarriageIt is incomplete, and I firmly believe that marriage is not the only way to happiness. However, in order to get rid of this pressure to get married, I decided to try a blind date.
Through blind dates, I hope to find the person who is compatible with me. However, I have met a lot of men who dislike me and feel that I am past the best age to get married. Every time I was rejected, I was upset. Obviously, I don't look bad, I have a kind personality, and my family is wealthy, why don't they like me?It made me wonder if older women were really that annoying, and that really bothered me.
However, despite some failed blind dates, I finally met a man with whom I was relatively satisfied. He was very happy with me at first sight, which made me very happy and felt that he was really good at talking. However, when I told him about my family, he went out and made some excessive demands. He explained to me in detail that his family was seemingly poor, with two younger sisters, two younger brothers, and a pair of elderly parentsEconomyIt's stressful.
He wanted me to help him with the familyEconomyburden, and his demands are not limited to helping his familyEconomyThe problem also asked me to help his siblings buy vehicles, properties, and for theirsWeddingsProvide financial support. In addition, he also wanted me to bring two properties with me when I married him, one for his parentsRetirementHousing, a set of our husband and wife to live in. I am very angry and unacceptable to his demands.
Although my family is well-off, I don't owe them anything, and I will work for their whole family when I get marriedEconomyIt makes me feel a lot of pressure to be burdened to help, and I would never be stupid enough to marry a man who only cares about money, be a free babysitter for someone else's house, and take on the responsibility of the whole familyEconomyBurden. Therefore, I did not hesitate to respond to him: "Sorry, we are not suitable, I do not help the poor." With that, I turned and left. When I got home, he asked me to repay the two meals he had paid for me, and asked me for 200 yuan for lost work and travel expenses. Angry and speechless, I transferred the money directly to him and blacklisted him.
Since then, I haven't gone on a blind date, even though my family is still urging me. The blind date made me feel very angry because I was either disliked or scolded by others. I don't feel the need to marry off, meEconomyIndependent, completely able to support myself, I don't want to endure any grievances of being bullied. Moreover, there are more and more women who do not marry, and I believe that even if I don't get married, I can have a wonderful life. When the time comes, those married women will envy my free and independent life and no longer urge me to get married.
I learned a lot from this blind date experience. First of all,MarriageIt's not all about women, we can choose to be single and pursue our own personal happiness. Second, money is not measuredMarriageThe only criterion is that when going on a blind date, you should pay more attention to the other party's character and character, rather than just looking at the other party's family wealth. Finally, women should maintain an independent attitude, not be swayed by external pressures and expectations, and stick to their own choices. No matter what other people think of me, I firmly believe that I made the right choice. I will continue to enjoy my single life, pursue my career and hobbies until I find the person who is truly compatible with me, rather than getting married just because someone else is urging me to do so.