Doing what you can is a middle-aged person with quality
Author: Jin Shuangqi, who does radiation protection.
Big brother, that's no longer the patent of middle-aged people. Age can be called big brother, but ability and ability should not be called big brother. Age can't be changed, so admit it. Ability, ability, and level are called big brothers, and it really depends on your ability, level and ability. After middle age, you should learn to be modest and cautious, and it is right to do what you can. Here are a few effective ways to do what you can, and remember to follow me.
First of all, don't think of yourself as a big brother in everything. Middle-aged people like to be called "brother" the most. "Big brother" thinks that his age is the boss, experience is the boss, wealth is the boss, others don't understand anything, they can't do anything, and they must listen to you. With your nod, the big brother is majestic. Without your chin, big brother can have face. Actually, it's not like that. The real big brother relies on ability, ability, and wisdom. Others call you "big brother" is an honorific title, an official title, don't get carried away by a sentence of "big brother".
Secondly, the work should be conscientious and not gorgeous. Middle-aged people work and pay attention to affordability. Conscientious, the boss is happy, the work is smooth, colleagues change hearts, the salary is smoothly obtained, the bonus boss knows in his heart, the commission is high, and the pocket is bulging, this is what middle-aged people need. Middle-aged people don't need things like empty heads, drawing pies, drawing blueprints, and looking at the prospects are secondary, and the money is good, the job is fixed, and you can't leave your job, which is what middle-aged people need to do what they can.
Again, live happily and don't compare. Life is for oneself, and it's good to know how good or bad life is. You know your own happiness, you know your happiness, you know your hard work, don't always care about other people's fingers, fingers, and words. Comparison does not bring happiness, it does not bring happiness, it only brings endless distress, endless pressure and endless unhappiness. Live happily, don't violate morals and principles, live as you want, why care about others.
Finally, help others do their best and do their best. To help others, middle-aged people need to be guided by the three principles of "doing their best, doing their best, and doing their best". When others ask you for help, you can help them as much as you can. When someone asks you to borrow money, you can give it in your pocket, don't charge people, and don't ask others to borrow it. Listen to others for help, listen more, listening is also one of the best ways to solve things, don't show that you have the ability, the right is wrong, and the wrong is unreasonable. It is very important to help people learn to do what they can, this is an excellent middle-aged man, a middle-aged man with quality.
Editor: Jin Kai protects Jin Shuangqi.
Proofreading: Jin Kai protects Li Weiyong.
Review: Jin Kai protects Jin Haiyang.