In 1996, a pair of eyes met at a party at He Chaoyi's home. The 21-year-old walked into the venue with no regard for the prestigious guests.
She opened the refrigerator directly, picked up a whole watermelon and sat down at the bar ** to enjoy herself. In the corner, Eason Chan silently looked at this cool girl. Eason Chan, who met for the first time, was burning in his heart, and he was deeply impressed by Xu Haoying's independence and personality. The two soon came together, and Eason Chan was like a treasure, and he was infatuated with Xu Haoying's truth and straightforwardness. However, the good times did not last long, and in 1997, the relationship between the two was **in front of **. Comments poured in like a tide, criticizing Xu Haoying's taste for being low-grade and cheesy. Eason Chan doesn't care about these criticisms, Xu Haoying's sincere courage is exactly what he is overwhelmed. It is precisely because she is different that he is willing to overcome all obstacles for this relationship. The suppression of ** did not shake them, but deepened the connection between the two hearts. Eason Chan often makes fun of Xu Haoying's taste in dressing, and Xu Haoying also unceremoniously mocks his workaholic character.
However, every quarrel ended in sweetness. In 1999, Eason Chan and Xu Haoying began to live together. The two have very different personalities, and the discord between their ideas is gradually exposed. Eason Chan is busy with work and often goes out, while Xu Haoying likes to rest and relax at home. The house is full of shopping bags, which becomes the fuse for the two to quarrel. Once, Chen's mother suddenly visited her and asked about Eason Chan's annual income. Xu Haoying couldn't help but interject on the side, "I also make money myself." Eason Chan later had a big quarrel with Xu Haoying about this, and the angry Xu Haoying directly packed up her luggage and went back to her parents' house.
However, Eason Chan didn't give up. He patiently appeared at the door of Xu Haoying's house and stayed for a few days and nights. Finally, Xu Haoying compromised and opened the door, and the two reconciled as before. What he didn't expect was that Xu Haoying later contradicted his mother for him, and said without hesitation, "She is my lucky star." The road to love will not be smooth sailing, but it is these stumbles that make their relationship stronger and support each other. Eason Chan and Xu Haoying learned to understand and tolerate, and learned to reconcile after a quarrel. Gradually run in life, let them grow into a qualified partner. In 2002, Eason Chan accidentally fell off the stage during a concert in Taiwan, resulting in serious injuries to his intimate parts. As soon as the news came out, Hong Kong** immediately hyped the title of "no longer possible to have children", which was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for a man. What makes Eason Chan even more sad is that he is separated from Xu Haoying. However, what Eason Chan never expected was that Xu Haoying, who was about to break up, was anxious to get on a cargo plane as soon as he learned the news, just to get to his side as soon as possible. Eason Chan saw Xu Haoying in front of the hospital bed who was dying but rushed desperately, and his heart was full of thoughts. He knew that he must have a very special position in Xu Haoying's heart. Only sincere love can make a woman give up everything just to come to her side. The two immediately turned things around and came back together. What makes him even more relieved is that Xu Haoying promised to stand by his side forever, whether it is the loss of fertility or the trough of her career, she will rely on each other closely to get through the ups and downs of the future. Eason Chan was also at that moment, determined to repay Xu Haoying's true feelings. It was the accident in Taiwan in 2002 that made him re-examine the preciousness of this relationship. It was also from this moment that he made up his mind to spend the rest of his life with Xu Haoying. In 2006, after 10 years of long-distance love, Eason Chan and Xu Haoying finally entered the palace of marriage. In the same year, the two ushered in the birth of their first daughter.
Xu Haoying also withdrew from the entertainment industry at this time, concentrating on her husband and children at home and accompanying her growing daughter. Regarding this decision, Hong Kong media have hinted that Xu Haoying was raised by Eason Chan and lived like a year. As everyone knows, Xu Haoying, who gave up her career opportunity, never complained. Because she knows that her husband needs a warm rear support and a partner who is with him wholeheartedly. His wife's willing dedication moved Eason Chan. While he is busy in the entertainment industry, he also cares about the bits and pieces of his family from time to time. As long as he has free time, he will accompany his wife and daughter to go out and play, and take care of their daily life. His wife's selfless dedication made Eason Chan more determined and cherished this feeling.
Today, 10 years later, they are still in love. Why did Eason Chan fall in love with Xu Haoying? He replied with a smile because she was genuine. 25 years have passed, Xu Haoying's personality has never changed, it is still true and open. At first glance, she swaggered into the banquet scene; 25 years later, she still doesn't care about other people's eyes in public and maintains her innate personality. This truth is deeply appealing to Eason Chan's heart. Under the flashy appearance of the entertainment industry, it is rare for someone to stick to their true self. Xu Haoying has never concealed it. She boldly shows herself and has the courage to express her emotions, even if she is criticized for being "low-level and tacky", she has never changed.
In her, Eason Chan saw the true soul he longed for. Xu Haoying's frankness and honesty are the best stress reliever for Eason Chan after boring work. Cute little reactions, funny little tempers, constitute the source of this man's happiness day after day. Even if he is ridiculed by his friends, Eason Chan will not hesitate to say "I have her, she has me". After 25 years of ups and downs, her truth has never changed. This has also become the final answer that Eason Chan is willing to wait. He is willing to go through this long wait, just so that one day he can continue to walk and spend the rest of his life together. There is never perfection in love, but they can always go on because they understand the most authentic core of the relationship.
Xu Haoying accepted Eason Chan's workaholic personality, and Eason Chan tolerated Xu Haoying's arrogant temper. They don't seek to change each other, they just want to understand and wait. Whether it's a quarrel or a separation, after all, it's because of deep love, so I choose to compromise again and again. The reason why they can complement each other so far is because they have found another self in each other. Eason Chan, who is rational and steady, actually longs to indulge wantonly in his heart; Xu Haoying, who is dancing with her teeth and claws, also needs a gentle and considerate other half. Like two sides of the same coin, you have me, I have you. Twenty-five years have left a mark on them, but it has not detracted from the significance of this marriage. At the moment when the young Eason Chan was heartbroken, the middle-aged Eason Chan looked at his wife on the stage, and it was clear that he was still the affectionate boy.
He is willing to wait, willing to wait, just because what still lives in his heart is the same her back then. They may not be lucky enough to miss out on the best of their youth. However, God finally favored this pair of lovers - with a stage accident, in exchange for waiting for the second half of their lives; With a desperate dependence, the two have never forgotten each other despite the vicissitudes of life. What remains unchanged is the bright smile of the girl in the depths of my memory; What remains unchanged is also the gentle and hazy infatuation in the eyes of men. February** Dynamic Incentive Program