When I go home for the Spring Festival and contact my classmates, I learn that one of the best classmates in my middle school class passed away years ago!
The classmate's father is a retired cadre at the department level, which is already a very high position in the third- and fourth-tier counties and cities. Although the student has an ordinary academic background, but with the familiarity with interpersonal relationships that he has been exposed to since he was a child, of course, he also relied on the hard work of the day after tomorrow, mixed into a well-known listed company in the provincial capital joint-stock bank executives, and then jumped to another joint-stock bank, less than forty years old to become a leader, although it can not be regarded as the level of the administrative organ, but it is the leader of the provincial bank directly under the Beijing headquarters, which can be described as majestic, and the annual salary is said to be in the millions, which is comparable to even the graduates of Tsinghua University and Peking University among the classmates that year. Everyone was envious. It is said that he once said with satisfaction: We are only less than 40 years old, and we will work at least until we are 60 years old, and I am not willing to go to Beijing to become a deputy minister! You must know: most of the students who even had better grades than him back then were just a small section chief or even a section member.
Unexpectedly, people are not as good as heaven, two years earlier, a classmate posted a message in the group: he suddenly had a stroke, it is said that it was a cerebral hemorrhage, and he was urgently sent to the ICU, and his life was finally saved, but since then he has become a vegetative person, with a large number of tubes inserted to survive the world, and several times when fasting, he was forced to separate his trachea and take things out.
It was his family who suffered the crime: his wife was his college classmate, and she was also from a Kochi family, everyone was beautiful, like him, she entered the banking system to work, and soon became a financial white-collar worker, and then obtained an internationally certified qualification, it is said that major accounting firms have poached her, she went out to work for a while, and founded an accounting firm independently. The child is in high school, studious and sensible, and he is an excellent boy.
His parents are still alive, both are retired cadres of a certain level in the system, and their salaries and benefits are very good, and his parents are full of praise for this most capable and filial son, and they are very proud and gratified.
In short, seeing this family, it is so perfect that it makes people doubt life, God is too partial!
But I didn't expect the sudden change in the wind and clouds, and the creation made people. It can be said that when the water is full, it overflows, and when the moon is full, it loses.
Overnight, a momentary change makes you sigh that the sky is jealous of talents, and the world is unpredictable.
The classmates suddenly became like this, and the whole family was gloomy and gloomy, and they were in a hurry.
His wife runs to the hospital all day long, and his children are also restless when they go to school.
The elderly parents fell ill like a bolt from the blue, and the father soon suffered a stroke and lost his memory, and he needed to be taken care of all the time.
After being taken care of by his wife for a while, he was sent to his hometown hospital and taken care of by his brother, presumably because his wife also lost her patience. And from the previous scene of hugging, in exchange for only the snub in front of the door, after all, this society is realistic. You have no value, who wants to waste too much time and energy on you?
Such a happy family has been restless since then.
It is said that the student's annual physical examination is done by a top hospital in Beijing, which is a place for general-level people to see a doctor and recuperate. According to our analysis, the student was busy socializing on weekdays, and later heard that drinking was more restrained, but there were friends calling at the card table every day. It is estimated that he also thinks that he is in good health and lacks moderation.
It makes me sigh.
I think of a classmate in college, after graduation, he entered a county public security bureau and became a captain, he likes this profession very much, he is very dedicated, he is very upright, he is very cheerful and talkative on weekdays, he often jokes in WeChat groups, and is very active and humorous. One day, a classmate in the group suddenly sent out a message, which stunned everyone: it was actually a message from the Public Security Bureau to mourn a comrade-in-arms who died in the line of duty. It turned out that he had a sudden cerebral hemorrhage at the post, and the rescue was ineffective, and he died young! It is conceivable that he works very weekdays and has a very strong sense of responsibility, and the pressure of the Public Security Bureau is very high.
There is also a classmate, who is also exceptionally shrewd and capable, in addition to work every day, but also to do business, playing cards all night at night, of course, most of them, the career once developed very fast, less than 40 rushed to the deputy director level, I heard that there is room for further growth, who knew that lung cancer was suddenly detected, and he died after a few months of not fighting, leaving his daughter and still studying in college. Needless to say, his suffering from lung cancer is not unrelated to staying up late smoking in a closed hotel.
Life is short, life is so fragile. Thinking of myself, I also had to work too hard for a period of time, and I fell into the cervical spine and lumbar spine and other stubborn diseases, and I had attacks from time to time, and I realized that sometimes inadvertently overdraft will leave lifelong regrets, and the gains outweigh the losses.
When you are young, you don't feel that when you reach middle age, these problems gradually break out, and the accompanying torture reduces your sense of happiness and comfort, and you will find that the life of too much effort often outweighs the losses!