After Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi broke up, they didn't have a job for 6 years, why
Ji Lingchen's heart was full of anger and helplessness. After breaking up with Kan Qingzi, he couldn't find a job for 6 years, which made him feel very confused and unwilling. He frowned angrily, his heart full of helplessness. The phrase "You have loved the sea, I have loved you" once reverberated in his mind, making him feel very uncomfortable.
The treatment he received after the breakup left him incomprehensible, ridiculed, and even job opportunities and performance opportunities became less and less. At that time, when Kan Qingzi attended the award ceremony with him, his self-introduction made him the center of attention, and his romantic image made him a good man in the eyes of the public.
However, in a variety show in 2017, Ji Lingchen's image completely subverted the audience's impression of his image of a gentle and good man. In the show, they often quarrel over trivial matters, and the slightest disagreement can lead to a fierce quarrel, and even a sentence may become the fuse of the quarrel. Kan Qingzi often has tears on her face, which makes people feel that this relationship is extremely depressing. Finally, when it comes to the topic of marriage, the contradiction between them becomes very obvious.
It turned out that their disagreement was over the issue of marriage proposal and marriage. Kan Qingzi is almost 30 years old, and she is looking forward to having a warm home and a stable sense of belonging. However, Ji Lingchen was unwilling to take on the responsibility of marriage too early. When Wang Ke suggested that he propose, he was full of hesitation, and only said "I know it in my heart", which seemed to have an answer.
Kan Qingzi admitted that she longed to get married before the age of 30, but Liu Tao's words seemed to touch her: "You must know that if you don't propose before the age of 30, maybe she won't want to marry after the age of 30." Hearing these words, Kan Qingzi's eyes were slightly red, and he held back tears, as if waiting for an answer. However, Ji Lingchen did not react.
A person who longs to have his own family and lover is in stark contrast to a person who only cares about himself and is unwilling to enter into marriage and explain to others. Maybe everyone understands that this relationship may end here, and the relationship between the two seems to have come to an end.
When she stepped into her 30th birthday, she resolutely decided not to wait for Ji Lingchen's marriage proposal, but chose a new image and life journey. At the same time, the outside world began to rumor whether Ji Lingchen had cheated. Perhaps because he couldn't stand the rumors from the outside world, he chose to stand up and clarify the facts, leaving a sentence "You have loved the sea, I have loved you." ”
Although he felt that this was a very literary expression, he was fiercely criticized. Comments are one after another, "Without Kan Qingzi, what is left of Ji Lingchen", "Scumbag", "Yohe, do you think you are romantic". Since then, Ji Lingchen has had a new nickname "Brother Dahai".
Ji Lingchen didn't care about the ridicule of the outside world, he felt that he had just experienced a breakup. But it didn't take long for his career to begin to decline and slowly fade out of public view. At the same time, Kan Qingzi has risen all the way, participating in dramas, TV series, and even variety shows.
What's even more enviable is that she has found true love, and her boyfriend not only contracted a private island because she loves the sea, but also carefully planned a lavish and romantic marriage proposal ceremony, and the ring is the size of a pigeon's egg.
Ji Lingchen seemed to be a little puzzled by being ridiculed for breaking up, and even felt that he had been negatively affected by his career. He felt aggrieved and resentful, but he didn't realize that he was not responsible. The people around them never think about taking responsibility, they only enjoy the sweetness of romantic love, but they are not willing to take the responsibility that is due.
Kan Qingzi showed her happiness by sharing her sweet love and her boyfriend's extravagant marriage proposal, and also became the center of attention. However, at the same time, Ji Lingchen has become the object of ridicule and hot searches from the audience, and people think that Kan Qingzi's diamond rings are bigger than his eyes.
After the breakup, Kan Qingzi was difficult to let go of for a while, and her sad story touched the hearts of many people. Some people feel sorry for what happened to her, and some people are disdainful of her, such as Ji Lingchen. Therefore, her current ending is both predestined and the result of her own choice. Even if you don't want to admit it, you must accept that this is the result of your actions. If you don't love, leave and don't bring more hurt and indifference to her. Otherwise, you will end up hurting yourself.