Nowadays, people's exquisite mood and sense of ritual have actually evolved from the ancients.
It's just that the times are different, and the way of transformation is different.
Since ancient times, the Chinese have been a country of etiquette, and everything they do pays attention to rituals.
Nowadays, everything is about freedom, and the new generation of young people has little respect for their parents.
At home, children can come when they want and leave when they want to go.
Dressing and eating seem to be self-centered, and rarely take into account the feelings of their parents.
Parents' constraints and requirements for children, generally children can listen to one or two sentences, and do not contradict their parents in front of others.
Such a child can be regarded as filial piety.
the filial piety of children in ancient China; When a son is going to go away, he should inform his parents in advance, and say goodbye to his parents when he goes out. Go**? What to do? About how long it will take to return, I will explain it to my parents one by one, and try to reassure my parents.
Outside, whether it's a few days or a few months, if you have a family.
When they come back, they should go into their parents' house in the morning and evening, visit their parents, and report to them about their absence. Then I can go back to my room and be with my wife and children.
During the New Year's holidays, the family sits together.
It is necessary to toast the old man first, and after the old man moves the chopsticks, the children and grandchildren can move the chopsticks.
Most of the love between men and women is the order of their parents and the words of the matchmaker. This relatively old habit has lasted for thousands of years.
Well, now it's free love, and you can choose who you love. This is the progress of the times.
Lights and firecrackers.
This ancient way of welcoming the New Year has been passed down to this day.
In the past, most of the stickers were made by literati and ink writers, and the whole red paper was cut, and the thick ink was polished in the grinding plate, and then the greetings between heaven and earth were written ...... word by wordAnd today's pairs, people like to call the Spring Festival couplets, of course, most of the Spring Festival couplets are bought ready-made, and the looks are varied.
People are free to choose.
Originally, during the Chinese New Year, the younger generations had to kowtow to their elders. Elders, give the younger generations New Year's money.
Nowadays, people call it red envelopes.
In the past, there were many people living in bungalows. On the evening of the 30th of this day, a lantern pole will be erected in the courtyard of every house.
Illuminate your own yard red, festive. I was also prepared to squat under the lantern and nap when Jiang Ziya came in the middle of the night.
It is said that all the gods in the "God List" have been sealed, but Jiang Ziya's turn has no place ......So every year, the common people leave a lantern for Jiang Ziya.
Nowadays, there are many people living in buildings, and there are few people who hang lanterns during the Chinese New Year. The appearance of various lanterns is also colorful.
In the past, every family was a round red lantern, heralding the new year, reunion, and prosperity.
The atmosphere of the New Year is very strong, and the children's mood ...... looking forward to the New Year is even more impatient
And now people celebrate the New Year, it seems that they don't have the strong energy to look forward to the New Year.
Now every day every family has fish and meat, as long as you have money, you can eat whatever you want.
Every day seems to look like the New Year, so now people feel that the New Year's Day, the biggest feeling seems to be a year older.
There are so many delicious and fun things that most people feel very tired during the New Year, (covering their mouths and laughing......）
Oh, the appearance of the New Year's holidays, although the pattern is constantly updated and changing, but there is a little less enthusiastic prayer.
This may be because the changes are too fast, which is where the happiness and ideals of the ancients lie.
Nowadays, however, people are accustomed to it, and this must be said to be a kind of unconscious happiness.
Because there are thousands of modes of happiness, there are basically two main ones, there are new words and new words, and prophetic prescience.
There is hindsight, and since birth, I have begun to fall into the honey pot. Happiness is taken for granted in these people. It's not sweet, it's not sweet. It's the kind that always feels good, but can't describe it.
Anyway, good is a kind of happiness! (Hahaha laughs).