Recently, the Google man murdered his wife on the cusp of the case, because the suspect Chen postponed his appearance in court several times on the grounds of physical reasons, so there is not even a court trialAccording to public news, the man's parents have hired a well-known American lawyer, and Chen's failure to appear in court may be due to the guidance of a high-ranking person.
There are three reasons why this matter has attracted so much attention. First, the two parties are too young and too good. Both graduated from Tsinghua University, studied in the United States, and entered the world's top companies after graduationI only got married last year. There are still wedding photos of the two in the woman's circle of friends, which look incomparably matched. Second, the resumes of both men and women are undoubtedly the dream children of every pair of parents, and the murder suspect is the kind that can be robbed in the marriage and love market. Their accident gave the chicken baby's parents a heavy blow to some extentIt turned out that the results not only could not keep the peace, but even the life. Third, the man's criminal methods are too cruel, not **, knife and slashInstead, it is a fatal blow to the opponent's brain. When he was discovered, the man's most significant trauma was a swollen and bruised right hand. Chen is 190cm tall, and the woman is about 160cm smaller than the visual inspection, in this kind of confrontation, the physical conditions of men and women are very different, and the woman has almost no room to resist and fight back. 
The news itself is worrying enough, but I didn't expect there to be an even more chilling scene. In order to meet their dark psychology and traffic needs, some netizens began to pour dirty water and create pornographic rumors on the woman. On Zhihu, where the so-called elite male users are the main body, seemingly objective but cold-blooded analysis abounds, and the key is that these people have not even understood the case, and they have confused the case of Chen's murder of his wife with another case of the man's suicide after shooting his wife in the same time period. But even so, it does not prevent everyone from sympathizing with the violent men and blaming the victimized women. "What deep hatred can beat a woman to death? The hatred of killing the father and taking the wife, there is no killing the father, only taking the wife"; "What if his wife cheats on her own initiative." 
The strange phenomenon of a man killing a woman must be stamped with the "anger of an honest man" was not absent from the discussion of this case. 
There is also a mouth that is "Chinese Reason", as if her own mother is a foreigner. The reply below is also daddy greasy:It's still more than ten years ago that the senior international student was smart, and he found a KTV little sister to have a child. In the eyes of the so-called elite men, the value of an excellent woman is far less than that of a KTV girl who can have children. 
"How desperate this man must be to do such an extreme thing".I hope that the person who says this kind of thing, in real life, someone slaps him, and he can send another face - how desperate you must be to be violent, kill me. 
There is also a netizen named Zhimin x Guimei who made a macro comment:"In general, I think it's just not to expect anything from their moral level. But now the man is fine",After reading it, I just want to say Guimei run. 
As soon as someone refutes, they immediately cover their mouths :"I said cheating is cheating, you should still be a child, don't reply to me. ”
Come as soon as you open your mouth, pretend to be an insider, and say that the woman participates in yingpa without any basis, think about how sad the parents who have just lost their daughter should be when they see these remarks, and wish these netizens' genes to be extinct in their lives. 
The unscrupulous marketing account also smelled it. A college entrance examination champion from an innocent background, a Tsinghua scholar, can be made into a yellow rumor to this point, as the old man said earlier, married a KTV sister, and the girl was killed, they were afraid that they would set up a monument to the suspect. 
Today, it is said that the woman's parents spoke out for the first time. "Xuan Yi left us forever, her beauty and kindness were frozen at the age of 27, the loss of her beloved daughter, and there was nowhere to say grief. Take this platform to keep a quiet place, not to be disturbed, not to be judged, and may she protect herself in heaven, no longer be sad, and stay away from violence. ”
Thinking about how uncomfortable parents who have just lost their children should be when they see the slander and pornographic rumors about their daughters on the Internet, I feel that these people who create pornographic rumors are not worthy of being parents, or even worthy of being children. They are dressed as rational customers, thinking that they are rational and analytical, but in fact they don't even have a basic human flavor; Under the banner of searching for the truth, it is an ugly misogynistic. Morally denigrating the girl in question can bring some men to a spiritual orgasm, which is a specialty of a patriarchal society. Turning to the classic masterpiece "Water Margin", Wu Song killed Pan Jinlian, Song Jiang killed Yan Poxi, and the man was forced to go to Liangshan, and his red face was a disaster. Even a loyal and strong daughter like Lin Niangzi ended up committing suicide to Lin Chong. As the head of the 100,000 forbidden army, Gao Yanei teased his own lady, he did not kill Gao Yanei bloodily, but made a shrinking turtle in order to protect the black gauze hat, causing himself to be framed and mistakenly broke into the White Tiger Hall, and gave his wife a leave of absence on the way to distribution. The wife felt that she had no face to see people, and in order not to fall into the hands of Gao Yanei, she could only commit suicide with hatred. Throughout the history of Chinese heroes, many times it is a history of women's blood and tears. In the fifteenth chapter of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Liu Bei said: Brothers are like siblings, and women are like clothes; The clothes are torn, but they can be sewn; Broken hands and feet, Encore continued? This sentence profoundly influenced the Puxin man who dreamed of being an emperor in later generations although he did not have the talent of an emperor. Men kill people because honest people are forced to be in a hurry, women are killed either water-based poplars or gold-worshipping women or both, and the victim's guilt theory is vividly expressed in women. Chinese pay attention to things for a reason, in this ** process, it is easy to sit crooked, run to sympathize with the abuser, if the abuser is a man, the appearance is a little more thoughtful, it is even more incredible, and may even gain fans and sisters. In our traditional culture, we are more tolerant of men; In our genes, there is something called Mu Qiang. Flies don't bite seamless eggs, poor people must have something to hate, who will kill if they are not forced to be in a hurry, three sets of combination punches down, immediately black and white are unclear, right and wrong are reversed. Here Brother Yang highly recommends a book, "In Cold Blood" by Truman Capote.
The author spent 6 years tracking down a family that shocked the United States**, interviewed all the relatives, friends and acquaintances around the victims, **, including the police who handled the case, and finally wrote this famous long-form non-fiction literary work. In this real-life case that took place in Garden City, Kansas, USA, a family of four was brutally murdered, including a pair of young boys and girls. And the two ** and the victim did not know each other, no grievances, no hatred, not for money, resentment, sex, no obvious motive, they could have grabbed a little money and left, but brutally killed a family of four, and even in the process of killing, calmly put pillows and blankets for the deceased. In the process of visiting the families of the two suspects, Capote found that one of the original families was unlucky, while the other seemed to have no original family problems at all, from the perspective of criminal psychology, there was no way to classify the two killers, it can only be said that they treated killing and life as a game.
During the six-year visit, Capote almost developed tremendous sympathy and even affection for a suspect named Perry, and then after the interview, he decisively stopped continuing to pay Perry's legal fees and watched him walk to the gallows. Although theoretically, the motive of the crime is conducive to avoiding the occurrence of the same crime, but at least some criminals are born bad people, although you don't know when and in what way their "cold-blooded" is presented, but cold-blooded and brutal are indeed things in the bones of this type of person-The victims can only be said to be unlucky when they meet them, for no reason, just because they are unlucky. Even if you take 10,000 steps back, the victim may have moral defects, because no one is perfect, but what the perpetrator has implemented is **, one is at the moral level, and the other is at the legal level, which should not be discussed together at all. Back to the Google engineer murder case, some Chinese men unreasonably speculated that the victim women were unclean and cheating without any factual basis, because they always believed in the theory of red face and disaster in their bones. This is the privilege given to them by the patriarchal society - all the misfortunes, ugliness, and mistakes of men are caused by women; Men are eternal and infallible, just as women are born with original sin. And some women also fall into the cycle of misogyny and become men's **, because they have too much substitution for their own fear and insignificance. Afraid of being in the same situation, and desperately looking for the "unforgivable" place in the victimized woman, in order to comfort himself-I'm not like her, so I'm not in such danger.
In fact, the fate of women is essentially the same, and every time we stick a knife in the same sex, it becomes a boomerang that pierces us and our daughters. Discuss crime first and then focus on morality. For Google's wife murder case, instead of the truth, it is better to pay more attention to the appearance. Everything in the world is not always in harmony with cause and effect; Not all people in the world have a reasonable growth trajectory. He kills people just because he's a person who can kill, so he kills people, it's as simple as that. The imperfections and faults of others are not enough to justify murder. As Capote found out in a six-year-long interview that Perry was almost identical to his own childhood experience, he said:"Perry and I were like kids growing up in the same room, and one day he got up and walked out the back door, and I walked through the front door. ”Don't pity the empathy killer, and don't ask for the victim's perfection for no reason in order to make your empathy valid, especially if the victim is a woman. Any malicious or even unconscious speculation can set back the rights of men and women by ten years.