The world is complicated, everyone wants to see the world clearly, but they can't always see clearly.
Life is not easy, everyone wants to live an easy life, but everyone is suffering.
In the journey of life, we can only live as a strong individual by understanding human nature and seeing through life.
Wang Zhiwen once said:
Once a person has experienced to the point where he doesn't want to talk, doesn't want to argue, doesn't want to stammer, doesn't want to please anyone, loses interest in making friends, loses the excitement of parties, becomes more and more silent, and doesn't even bother to pretend to be on the spot, and likes to be alone, then you will understand human nature and see through life. ”
Arguing with others and running social networks often end up being useless.
Standing at the fork in the road of life, we gradually understand that there are not many things that must be said in this world, and human nature is like this. It is normal to choose to walk alone, as life should be.
1. Choosing silence is a kind of maturity
If you are passionate about talking in any situation, and you are keen to solve problems with words, you will inevitably accumulate problems.
It's easy to think that you can solve problems just by communicating, but in fact, many things, you are not strong enough, and few people will care about the opinions you express.
Truly mature people understand that it is better to be silent than to talk endlessly.
Talking, people are obsessed with arguing with others, dealing with contradictions, and are keen on interpersonal communication, but in fact, they are only superficial.
If you are no longer useful and lose your attractiveness, others will not support you at all and will not listen to what you have to say.
A person who can't control his mouth is often an ineffective expression and an ineffective social, while a person who knows how to be silent can observe human nature and cultivate himself on the sidelines.
Whatever you want to argue, no matter how much you say, if you are not strong, no one will agree with your point of view. The recognition of others is brought about by your strength.
Anything you want to please and stammer, no matter how many nice things you say, it will not provide value, and others will not recognize and help you.
Any social interaction that you maintain, without depth and only superficial relationships, is ineffective socialization.
When a person learns to be silent, he knows how to rely on himself, not on relationships, and develop strong skills, use his ability to conquer everyone, and solve all difficulties.
2. Being alone is a kind of detachment
Walking with a group of people, of course, it was lively.
But being buzzy doesn't mean it's a good thing. We are easily targeted by others and maliciously harmed by others.
We all want to walk side by side with a group of people and transform together, but after more experiences, we will find that life is a lonely journey.
Many times, choosing to go it alone is a braver move, and it is a choice that is beneficial to oneself.
Only by crossing ourselves can we deal with life's problems. Only when one person goes, can we stay away from the malice that lurks in some people.
No matter who you walk with, let's not trust that we will always be with us in our life. Even if a group of people walk together, they have different goals, and when they encounter problems, they still solve their own problems.
Being alone is not a clear and high, but a person who has seen through life and chooses self-detachment.
Only by walking alone can people learn to cross themselves, get out of the trap of the group, and thus explore freely, be independent and not cowardly, and go further.
The purpose of being alone is to become a better version of yourself, and the more independent a person is, the more she knows how to achieve herself and create her own happiness.
When a person is often alone, he can detach himself from the crowd, break the stereotype, and see the scenery that belongs to him.
I like a quote very much:
The essence of life is to live alone. ”
In this noisy world, it is wise to remain silent, and being alone is a compulsory subject.
In the face of life, only by making yourself strong can you create and protect your wonderful life.
A person's most solid support is always a strong self.
May we know how to be silent and not be afraid of loneliness. Your life can truly be in your own hands.
Encourage you. Author: Cyan Morning Breeze, waiting for you in a windy place, emotional perspective, rational point of view, writing soothing words. Pay attention to what you have to say and accompany you to think about life together.