Preamble:
This Spring Festival, due to a little conflict with my family, I didn't plan to go back. My brother wanted a car and my father asked me for the money, which annoyed me. So, I spent the New Year at my boyfriend's house. There are only two people in his boyfriend's house, and his father married another ** after his father divorced. Her boyfriend is the only child in the family, and she is the only one with her son. However, when I was getting my manicure, my boyfriend suddenly asked who would help him with the housework when he came to his house during the Spring Festival, and we had an argument.
Disputes caused by nail trimming.
After finishing the repair, I was in a good mood and full of hope to have a happy New Year at my boyfriend's house. However, she never thought that her boyfriend would ask such a question. He didn't think it was convenient to do anything after a manicure, but I disagreed with him. I don't think I have to do a lot of housework during the Spring Festival holiday, so getting my nails trimmed won't prevent me from spending the New Year at home.
If her boyfriend is still pushing her, she can't do anything at home. This is a question that confuses me. The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, of course I wanted to help, but I didn't have to finish everything at home, that would be a bit difficult.
The boyfriend hastened to defend himself, arguing that women of high moral character are more popular with the elderly. What is virtuous? Her boyfriend said that Kennai Suke just knows what she has to do, for example, when a bowl of rice is gone, she will serve him vegetables. This sentence made me very unhappy, he thought he was the master, he came to see me? I firmly believe that a wise woman should be loving to her partner.
I didn't show weakness and retorted: "It's your mother who is so good to your father, that's why he splits his legs." "I think their family hired a little girl who didn't want money, not to be a daughter-in-law.
The boyfriend defended his mother: "My mother was very good to me, but I entrusted me to his girlfriend, and she felt that she was too bad at taking care of people. "This makes me very disappointed and incomprehensible, why is my boyfriend's view of his family so one-sided, that is, he refuses to know more to draw conclusions?
Women's emancipation and autonomy.
On this point, I firmly believe that every woman has her own space to survive and develop. As a woman, I want independence and freedom, and I want to be treated the same at home.
Women don't live just to do housework. The era of gender equality has arrived, and housework cannot be just a woman's business, but must become an obligation for everyone. Women also have their own careers, their own ideals, and the right to be a housewife.
I firmly believe that a happy home is not the contribution of one person, it requires the family to work together. Both men and women must fulfill their duties and responsibilities.
The conflict between ancient and modern times.
In today's society, different cultures and traditional values coexist and develop each other. However, in the clash of these two ideas, we must also treat different cultures with an open-minded and tolerant attitude.
In the course of historical development, the concept of family has undergone many changes. Prior to this, people had always regarded women as the way to run the house, and to do housework as a part of the woman's responsibility. However, in contemporary times, women have been given more rights and opportunities, and at the same time, they are eager to realize their ideals and lives.
In family matters, men and women are expected to have equal status and communication. In family life, family members should communicate and discuss more, and do not blindly follow the shackles of old ideas.
The conclusion was reached:
This quarrel made me realize that we have different ideas and values between us. These differences do not prevent us from getting to know each other, on the contrary, they provide an opportunity for better communication and consultation.
There are different ways to divide the values of the family and the division of family affairs. Everyone should respect each other, understand each other, and work together to create a happy and warm home atmosphere.
Gender equality is a new development trend, and we must get rid of the shackles of old ideas and accept diverse modes of life and ideas. Only on the premise of equality and mutual respect can we create a warm and warm home.
I'm going to go my own way, I'm going to go my way;
I firmly believe that men and women should be treated equally and share the obligations of the family;
We should respect each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other's differences;
In the midst of the arguments, we had a deeper exchange;
Our ultimate goal is to create a fair and harmonious family atmosphere.
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