During the New Year, many loving couples have to be forced to separate, each returning to their own home to spend the New Year with their parents, becoming a long-distance couple. During the Chinese New Year, in fact, it is the most testing of the couple's feelings, especially those couples who originally lived together, or often met, and the short separation during the Chinese New Year can best see how deep the other party's feelings for themselves are. Some couples go home separately, and their feelings for each other become better because of the distance. And after some couples separate, they frequently quarrel or have conflicts, resulting in cracks in their feelings between each other. Women want to know how much a man loves him, and she can take advantage of the Chinese New Year to see how he treats you. If he treats you like this, it means that he doesn't really love you very much. 
1. Don't say that you don't actively reply to your messages, there are many people who start to ignore their girlfriends' messages after returning to their hometowns. I often see some netizens sharing on the Internet that after the subject went home for the New Year, it was as if he had changed a person, his attitude towards himself was very cold, and the reply to the message was very untimely, and he didn't know what he was doing. This is a very dangerous signal, because this is going home for the New Year, not going to work overtime, let alone doing any urgent projects, and there is no time to even look at your phone. If you want to say that you are so busy that you don't have time to look at your phone, it's just nonsense, and no one will say that you will deduct your salary if you look at your phone, and no one will let you look at your phone. So even if it's really busy at home and there is a lot of work to do, it won't mean that you will ignore the object's message when you go home, reply for a long time, and then don't share your life. This is obviously wrong, normal people will share their lives with their partners when they return home, unless the relationship between two people has been so flat that they don't want to share anything with each other at all, this is another story. Whatever the real reason, this behavior proves that he doesn't love you that much. 
Second, there are no New Year's blessings and no red envelopes, and there are often girls who complain, as if they don't know that they are going to celebrate the New Year, there are no New Year's Eve blessings, and there are no red envelope gifts and the like. Other than that, there was no other information, and he didn't come to him until the first day of the new year, as if nothing had happened. If you use "straight man" to excuse his behavior, it is completely unreasonable, no matter how straight a man is, he will not know that girls are eager for their objects to express their love with some practical giving. He knows, it's just that he doesn't want to give you this blessing, let alone give you a red envelope, because he doesn't want to pay for you, he doesn't think it's worth it, for him he just wants to be with you without spending a penny. As for you not receiving his blessings and red envelopes, you will be very disappointed and sad, of course he knows, but he pretends not to know, and he can get away with it by pretending not to know and making himself a straight man who doesn't know how to please his girlfriend. Don't make excuses for him to say that he just doesn't understand, how can anyone not understand. If you don't believe it, you can take his mobile phone to see, did he send a blessing message to his leader? Let's see if he sent New Year's greetings to some elders, and if he sent New Year's greetings to some people of high morality? There must be, he doesn't send it to you, he just doesn't want to send it to you, because if he sends you this blessing, if there is no red envelope, he will be embarrassed himself, so he simply doesn't even send the blessing. 
If you say that your object is like this to you during the New Year, then really don't have any illusions about him, he really doesn't like you that much. People who like you won't go home for the New Year and snub you and don't reply to your messages. People who like you will not fail to give you New Year's wishes either. He just thinks that you are not that important, that you are not worth his attention for you, and this is the truth of piercing the heart. It's not because he's a straight man, it's not because he doesn't know how to pay, no, it's just that he doesn't want to pay for you. End article illustration Stills from "Breakup Letter".