When we are young, we often make small mistakes, such as losing things, lying, and so on. And when faced with these small mistakes, different parents will have different ways of dealing with them. Today, I would like to share with you a story about "Mom, I lost my money", which tells us that the gap between the two mothers in 10 years is unimaginable!
Xiao Ming is a lively and cute little boy, and one day he finds that his pocket money is missing. He was in a hurry, so he told his mother. Xiao Ming's mother did not reproach him, but patiently asked him about the amount and time he lost. After confirming that the lost amount was not very large, she told Xiao Ming: "It's okay to lose the money, but we have to learn to learn from it." In the future, you should take care of your belongings and don't make the same mistake again. ”
Another little girl, named Xiaohong, had the same problem. When she told her mother that she had lost her money, her mother was very angry, scolded her for being irresponsible, and punished her for not having pocket money for a month. Xiaohong felt very aggrieved, and thought to herself: "I didn't mean it, why did you treat me like this?" ”
10 years later, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hong have grown up. Xiao Ming has become an excellent young man who knows how to manage his finances and is very responsible. Xiaohong, on the other hand, often feels anxious and uneasy because of some small things, and lacks self-confidence and courage to face challenges.
This story teaches us that when faced with a child's mistakes, different ways of dealing with them can have different effects on the child. Xiao Ming's mother helped him realize his mistakes and learn from them through encouragement and guidance. And Xiaohong's mother took the form of punishment and blame, making her feel aggrieved and helpless. This type of education will not only make children feel inferior and unconfident, but will also affect their future growth and development.
In the process of educating children, we, as parents, should encourage and guide our children to recognize and correct their mistakes as much as possible. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your attitude and tone, and do not be too harsh or blame the child. Because each child has different personalities and characteristics, we need to adopt appropriate education methods according to the actual situation of the child. Only in this way can we truly help children grow into a responsible, confident, and courageous person.
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