In "The World", the love story of Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei is particularly eye-catching. They met at a young age, and despite the disparity in their family backgrounds, they always held on to their feelings for each other. No matter how the years go by, how the fate rises and falls, they always love each other and never give up.
Hao Dongmei, the daughter of the vice governor, was born in a powerful family, and her encounter with Zhou Bingyi seemed to be arranged by fate. Zhou Bingyi, although his family is poor, he is talented and good-looking, and he has great ambitions in his heart. The junior high school days of the two were the starting point of their emotional germination. Hao Dongmei's devotion to Zhou Bingyi was treated indifferently by him. It's not that he doesn't like Hao Dongmei, but he knows that the huge difference in the family backgrounds of the two makes love unattainable.
However, a visit by Hao Dongmei to Zhou Bingyi's home in "Light Word Piece" completely changed their relationship. Under the moonlight, Hao Dongmei burst into tears as she witnessed the living conditions of the poor. She felt sympathy and grievances for the residents of Light Word Piece, and even grieved that her father had failed to improve their lives. At that moment, Zhou Bingyi's feelings for Hao Dongmei underwent a subtle change.
Soon after, Governor Hao's identity as a "capitalist roader" was revealed, and Hao Dongmei was also labeled as a "black five type of child". However, Zhou Bingyi did not alienate her because of this, but chose to face the predicament side by her side. Although the identities of the two are very different, love has allowed them to transcend the boundaries of the world. During the Corps period, Zhou Bingyi originally had the opportunity to be transferred to the Shenyang Military Region to become the secretary of a certain chief. However, because of Hao Dongmei's identity, he did not hesitate to give up this opportunity, and quickly married Hao Dongmei and officially became a family. Among the three brothers and sisters of the Zhou family, their relationship is the smoothest, although there are slight twists and turns due to historical reasons, but the deep relationship between the two has made them go through the most difficult period together, and both of them were admitted to university.
After graduation, Zhou Bingyi entered politics, while Hao Dongmei entered the university to work. Hao Dongmei's father died one winter, while her mother, Jin Yueji, resumed her retirement** treatment and lived with her daughter and son-in-law. Although Zhou Bingyi's road to officialdom has been full of ups and downs, fortunately, with the advice of his mother-in-law Jin Yueji, an experienced woman with strong party spirit and principles, and the support of Hao Dongmei, a confidante, their marriage has always been harmonious and happy.
After retiring, Zhou Bingyi died of stomach cancer, and surprisingly, Hao Dongmei did not immerse herself in grief for a long time. On the contrary, just a few months after Zhou Bingyi's death, she chose to marry a wealthy overseas Chinese businessman in her seventies and planned to emigrate. Some people question whether the relationship between her and Zhou Bingyi is really so deep.
It is undeniable that Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi love each other deeply. However, Hao Dongmei's inability to have children became a big regret in their marriage. When she was working on the farm, Hao Dongmei accidentally fell into an ice cave, causing physical injuries and loss of fertility. Despite many times, this fact is still irretrievable, which has become a big regret in their happy marriage.
In a conversation with Yao Lisong, Zhou Bingyi admitted that he sometimes envied the life of his younger brother Zhou Bingkun, the ordinary life of "wife and children hot kang head". However, as a righteous gentleman, Zhou Bingyi always took into account his wife's feelings and carefully protected her self-esteem. Even when his father asked about fertility, he took the initiative to take responsibility and did not let Hao Dongmei feel any pressure. Okay, here's my understanding and creative rewriting of the original text:
In the context of the marriage between the Zhou family and the governor's family, Hao Dongmei, as the daughter-in-law of the Zhou family, deeply felt that she was not worthy of the daughter-in-law of the governor's family, so she always owed something to the Zhou family in her heart. Although Zhou Bingyi has never changed his love for her because of her identity, Hao Dongmei has always felt that she can't fully release her mood in front of Zhou Bingyi. In order to make up for this guilt, she was doubly good to the Zhou family, and never put on any stand in front of the Zhou family.
During the period when the farm went to the countryside, Hao Dongmei suffered a lot, but she also cherished her relationship with Zhou Bingyi even more. She is grateful to Zhou Bingyi for his understanding and thoughtfulness, and is therefore more willing to repay his family. Mother-in-law Jin Yueji also admired her son-in-law Zhou Bingyi even more.
Hao Dongmei is an only daughter, and in order to make up for her debt to Zhou Bingyi, she proposed to let Zhou Bingyi's niece Zhou Yue live in the house and treat her like her own daughter.
When the Zhou family encountered difficulties, Hao Dongmei and her brother-in-law Cai Xiaoguang did not hesitate to take on the responsibility of taking care of the family. They often went to visit Bingkun, who was serving a prison sentence, so that Zhou Bingyi, who was far away, and Zhou Rong, who was far away in France, were relieved of their worries. This experience made the relationship between the Zhou family closer, more harmonious and more harmonious.
During Zhou Bingyi's tenure as secretary of the party committee of the military factory, the factory faced the dilemma of reform and transformation. In order to make a living for the workers, he went to the Soviet Union to fight for the shipbreaking business, risking his life to drink. His efforts eventually brought nearly one million dollars to the factory, and he also won the respect and gratitude of the workers.
Indulging oneself in alcohol eventually left the sequelae of stomach ulcers. While recuperating in Russia, I met Olya, a Soviet girl who made me pay mixed feelings. Olya, whose father was the commander of the fleet, played a key role in my work.
One night, Dongmei suddenly asked me, "Have you kissed you?" I replied, "Of course, more than once." It's a necessary etiquette to follow the local customs. She was obviously not satisfied with my answer, and continued to ask: "You don't use etiquette as an excuse, I asked about deep kisses!" ”
The night before I was to leave, Olya hosted a feast for me. In front of many guests, she and I kissed affectionately and burst into tears. At that moment, I felt helpless, and I was short of words, and I could no longer defend myself. Dongmei warned me angrily: "Zhou Bingyi, if you weren't sick, I would have kicked you out of bed!" Don't pretend to be garlic for me, reflect on yourself! If there's a next time, don't blame me for being ruthless! ”
Although there is no follow-up to Oria's story, it undoubtedly has a huge impact on Dongmei. She has always believed that my love for her is unwavering. However, now she is starting to wonder if I will change my mind about her if there is enough ** and reason. This insecurity and uncertainty complicate our relationship.
Regarding the love between me and Dongmei, my sister Zhou Rong saw it most thoroughly: "You and Sister Dongmei are very compatible in all aspects, but there is one thing that will become a regret......."She went on to say, "Love needs to be nourished by passion, and it should burn between lovers." But between you, I only see tenderness, but I don't see the spark of passion. Later, I had to admit that Zhou Rong's vision of seeing people and things was really unique. She is indeed a prophecy, and his love with Dongmei is like a pool of water, calm and deep. Zhou Bingyi felt a little regretful in his heart, he was grateful to Dongmei for the rich spiritual world and superior material life that Dongmei brought him, and also appreciated her love and care for his family over the years. However, he felt even more sorry for Dongmei. As a party cadre, his beliefs and responsibilities have made him devote all his heart and soul to his work and the people.
After a long period of separation, he completely entrusted the care of the family to Dongmei, but forgot that Dongmei also had her own dreams and pursuits. When he stepped down from his leadership position and looked forward to spending a peaceful old age with Dongmei, he found himself terminally ill. At the last moment of his life, he couldn't go down to Dongmei, and he hoped that she could find a new home. A few months later, Dongmei found a suitable partner, and she texted Zhou Rong and invited her to be a bridesmaid. The news made Zhou Bingkun feel lost and sad, but his brother-in-law, Cai Xiaoguang, reminded him to read Zhou Rong's newly published book, and the words in the book made him suddenly enlightened.
It is written in the book that for everyone, there are too many good and good things in the world to experience one by one; And for people all over the world, there are too few good things for the vast majority of people to have. Even if we have a good sister-in-law, we should be glad to have a sense of happiness. If my sister-in-law one day ceases to be my sister-in-law, but becomes someone else's wife, I will not feel regret, but will silently bless her from the bottom of my heart. A good woman should not be alone for a long time, this is the normal state of life.
I believe that Bingkun can also understand the choice of sister-in-law Dongmei. As Zhou Bingyi's partner, she does her best and takes care of everything; As a sister-in-law, she is conscientious and takes good care of the Zhou family. Now that she has gone through a journey in her life, she will embark on a new journey towards her own future. We have no right to blame her choice and timing. Life should continue to look forward, as long as we know how to cherish, every day in the future will be full of new hope and beauty.