As we all know, in the increasingly frequent exchanges between the two people, some behaviors and attitudes can not only deeply attract the other party, so that they are obsessed with you; However, the same behavior is very likely to cause disgust in the other person's heart, or even undo all the efforts you have shown.
In the process of chasing the lady they like, high-ranking men often accumulate some subtle mistakes, which eventually cast a haze on their previous efforts and were in vain.
Today, we will be in the midst of a complex two**, which kind of behavior will cause the ladies to frown and dissatisfied, if you can avoid it wisely, it is undoubtedly the key to winning their hearts!
First of all, don't be a "brainless" suitor. Many men often indulge in blind and fiery enthusiasm when they pursue their loved ones, mistakenly believing that as long as they give hard and continue to convey strong love to them, they can naturally exchange the hearts of beautiful women. In reality, however, this view is a complex affair. In the garden of love, excessive enthusiasm and dedication are often seen as heavy pressure and distress.
Imagine if you had a friend who would come to you in his spare time and talk about his deep feelings for you, would you get bored? This is almost unmistakably a reflection of the principles used to pursue ladies. Excessive enthusiasm and dedication will only bring stress and exhaustion to the lady.
So, whether you're a suitor or a friend, you need to maintain a certain level of calm and sanity. It is important to have a deep understanding of the other person's interests, personality traits, and the glow that radiates from you, and then carefully plan a set of effective pursuit strategies. Please keep in mind that love is not a simple giving, it needs to be irrigated and cared for with your heart.
Second, don't be an "emotional clown". In the process of pursuing the opposite sex, some men pay too much attention to the feelings and thoughts of the other party, and even do not hesitate to violate their own moral codes and values in order to please them. It is conceivable that such a move will inevitably cause discomfort to girls, and even trigger a defensive psychology to the point of strong antipathy towards it.
In a world of the two worlds, it is important to truly understand and respect each other's feelings. However, if a person completely loses himself on the road to pursuing his dreams, then the durability of the relationship will be difficult to climb. How can an individual without self-awareness and independence earn the respect and trust of others?
Therefore, as a suitor, you must know how to maintain a certain level of self-awareness and the ability to face it alone. Understand your own values and principles, and always adhere to your unique traits and personality in your quest. Only then will you be able to truly attract the other person and build a healthy and stable relationship.
Again, be sure to avoid being a lover of "ignorance". Finally, there is the issue of communication. In the process of pursuing the opposite sex, many men tend to focus only on their own expressions mechanically, ignoring the perceived experience of the other person. They may be so busy with their own unique storytelling that they don't care about the woman's life trajectory and her thoughts. Such behaviour will undoubtedly make the lady feel as if she is not being given the attention and understanding she deserves.
Good communication is the cornerstone of building strong bridges, no matter what kind of relationship you are in. In the process of the two years, understanding each other's thoughts and feelings has become the most important link. As a suitor, you need to master the skills of listening to and understanding the needs and thoughts of the other person, and at the same time, you must learn to be honest with your feelings and needs, so that the other person can clearly peek into the depths of your heart.
In addition to the three points mentioned above, there are still countless details that deserve the attention of the majority of friends. For example, please avoid being overly dependent on the other person and stay away from the ** that tries to change the other person; Maintain a mature and rational attitude and avoid behaviors that are harmful to your own image.
In the course of the two years, I hope that all of you can learn to be a growing, rational and wise person, and abandon those behaviors that may reduce your prestige. Please break out of the traditional mode of thinking, stay away from those villains who overly pursue others, and avoid sacrificing your own moral bottom line for short-term pleasure. Learn to truly listen to others, understand the distress and joy of others, and be bold enough to be yourself and tell the world what you really think and feel. Only in this way will you.