Do you know the new standard for finding a lover "two haves and one nothing"?
With the changes of the times and the renewal of concepts, young people not only pay attention to personal qualities and conditions, but also begin to pay attention to each other's family environment and family culture when looking for a life partner. In this case, a new one has emerged"There is nothing in both"Dating mode. So,"There is nothing in both"What does that mean exactly? "There is nothing in both"It is a specific requirement for each other's parents, and it is also a young person's reflection on their future life. Specifically,"There are both"It's about having a house and a pension"Nothing"There is no serious illness. Let's start with that"There are both"。In today's high housing prices, owning a house is the dream of many families. If the other parent has a home, it means that they may not have to face a lot of financial pressure in the future, and at the same time, the burden on the young person is reduced. On the other hand, having a pension means that the other parent has a stable income** to support himself or herself, while also reducing the burden on the children.
Next, let's talk"None"。No serious illness means that the other parent's parents are in good health and have no history of serious illness. This not only reduces the medical burden of the family in the future, but also means that the other family has good hygiene habits and health awareness, which provides better protection for the future. Absolutely"There is nothing in both"It's not absolute, and it doesn't mean that a parent with other medical conditions doesn't deserve to be considered. This is just a relatively reasonable criterion for young people based on their own needs and current situation. After all, falling in love is about finding the right partner, and finding the right partner must be built on certain conditions. This condition should take into account not only the current situation of the other parent, but also the needs and expectations of oneself. In short,"There is nothing in both"The conditions are not too demanding, but based on the consideration of real life and the planning of future life. Of course, everyone has their own standards and requirements, and the most important thing in the blind date process is mutual understanding and respect. Only on the basis of understanding and respect can we find a truly suitable partner and create a better future together.