Life is meant to be experienced, not to be perfect. Life cannot always be smooth and smooth, there will always be setbacks and difficulties. When something happens, it happens, don't dwell on why it happened, just find a way to fix it. We must have a mindset of going with the flow, accept everything that happens, accept the departure of others, and learn to live independently, be financially independent, and be independent in thought. Many things can only be relied on by yourself, others are unreliable, and when you have no value, no one will take the initiative to help you.
No matter what happened or what you went through, don't be discouraged, always believe in yourself, set yourself a goal, and try to move towards it. Don't care what other people think, just focus on being yourself. When you succeed, get a good financial income, and live the life you want, that's enough. Adults want to talk about the results, who cares about your process, no matter how hard you work and no result, who will ignore you and comfort you.
Remember that you don't have any shortcomings at all, there are no shortcomings, all you have are characteristics. Maybe it's because you haven't found the right job for the time being, you haven't met the right person, try more, experience more, and there will always be opportunities. Again, you are the best, absolutely sure of yourself, absolutely like yourself, and believe in yourself. I don't like myself, I don't cherish myself, do you still expect others? Cherish the current life, study hard, work hard, do your best, and put a good attitude.