With the rapid development of the economy, agriculture has been unable to meet the growing needs of farmers, so many farmers have chosen the secondary industry - to go out to work, which has caused many left-behind elderly, left-behind children and left-behind women in rural areas. In order to take care of the left-behind elderly and left-behind children, many young people have to leave their wives at home (left-behind women) to take care of them.
First, this will make it difficult for many young couples to see each other for a year and a half. With this happens, a lot of problems arise. For example, in life, because they are all young people, they can take care of the elderly, take care of the children, and work in the fields during the day. It's hard work, but it doesn't matter. But in the dead of night, it is often inevitable that you will be lonely and lonely. Especially physiologically, psychologically cannot be resolved.
Second, information is now developed, and the Internet connects the whole world. My husband is not around, and I have nowhere to say what I have in my heart. Many left-behind women choose to talk to strangers they don't know on the Internet. If you happen to meet an empathetic "good person" on the Internet, after a long time, the left-behind women are very likely to grow their red apricots outside. If the heart is not in this home, will it take care of this home well? Therefore, it is very likely that there will be a fire in the backyard, causing the family to be unsafe.
Third, the long-term separation of husband and wife may cause the relationship to fade. The long-term work of her husband outside the home makes many left-behind women feel insecure in their lives. At first, they may not get used to it. But after a long time, when you get used to it, maybe your feelings for your husband will slowly fade.
Fourth, there are many tasks in life that women cannot do. For example, in the middle of the night in the countryside, it is difficult for many women to do it alone. But my husband went out to work, and there was no way. At this time, most of the left-behind women turn to other men in the village for help. Think about it, after a long time, will the men in the village still help this left-behind woman for no reason? In order to survive, in order to live, most of the left-behind women will give these men some benefits. What are the benefits, everyone knows. As a result, most of the men in a village went out to work, and the few men who remained became the emperors of the soil, and they lived in the countryside with a group of wives and concubines. This not only betrays the style of J Zhuang, but also affects the education of children, and also affects the relationship between husband and wife one by one.
So, how should these problems of left-behind women be solved? I believe that in addition to the state's encouragement of rural areas to develop township enterprises, each of us should also take corresponding measures.
First of all, I think that if you can work as little as possible when you are not working, you should go out to work. Because we all know that going out to work is to make life better for our families and ourselves. But when you go out, the backyard **, and the home is gone, so is there any point in going out to work?
Secondly, if your family is really difficult, you can also choose to work closer to your hometown. In this way, you can go home often, not only to take care of the life of the family, but also to connect with your wife.
Thirdly, the current network connection is very convenient. If you really have to go out to work, you should call your wife often, or you can do it online now. This is good for the relationship between the husband and wife, and at the same time, it is also possible to learn more about the situation of the family.
Fourth, the state is now vigorously promoting the stall economy, and you can also develop some of your own small industries in your hometown and set up stalls.
Finally, if the family situation is okay, it is best to bring your wife when you are not out of work. This will allow you to earn a little more money and save yourself all the unnecessary hassles. Of course, this premise must be the health of the elderly in the family.
In any case, the purpose of our work is to have a better life, and if it backfires, we should stay at home. Do you think so?