The distribution of New Year's money, these six small taboos need to be paid attention to, which is not rude but also shows heart
When the strong atmosphere of the Spring Festival spread, those migrant workers who worked hard outside began their journey home with infinite attachment to their hometown. Perhaps, for adults, the Chinese New Year is more like a reunion, a warm moment with loved ones. However, for children, the Chinese New Year is a kind of laughter, a kind of red envelope from the hands of the elderly, filled with their wishes and care.
Red envelopes, a custom that has been passed down in China for thousands of years, not only represent money, but also represent the blessings of the elderly to their younger generations. However, while sending these "auspicious", the elderly should also think carefully and abide by several traditional taboos, so as to avoid unnecessary embarrassment and misunderstanding on this festive day.
So, what are the specific contraindications to pay attention to? Below, let's get to know the "six taboos", so that each "red envelope" conveys the purest wishes, making this year's Spring Festival warmer, more harmonious and warmer.
1. Pay attention to the number of red envelopes, how big it is to reflect your sincerity.
When it comes to red envelopes, the biggest headache for everyone is the number of red envelopes. Some people may think that giving a big red envelope will make them feel more fulfilled. But in reality, we don't have any reason to follow trends, let alone show off. Red envelopes are such a thing, mainly depending on the individual's economic situation, and do what you can.
If the family has money, give them a big red envelope to make them happy. However, if you are a regular family member or are strapped for money, you can reduce it. Feelings are the most important thing, not money. In fact, even numbers are also more auspicious, such as 66 and 88, which are also very flattering.
Red envelopes should never be a burden to you. Some people, perhaps because they feel that they are generous, or maybe they are afraid of being called a miser, so they will reluctantly send a big red envelope. But in fact, there really isn't a need for that. Red envelopes are not used to show off wealth and compare, but to express love and wishes for their children.
2. Use a new red envelope.
When we want to give a red envelope to a child, we usually put the money in a red bag. In this case, we have to have a special place, that is, we have to use new red envelopes. Why is that? Since the Chinese New Year means a new year, a new beginning, and new things, we can face the new year better, and it also means that our lives will be better.
Using old red envelopes to pretend is not only the atmosphere of the New Year, but also the suspicion of disrespect. Because, the red envelope is used to pass on the "New Year's money", and it is also a kind of good wishes for our children. Using an old-fashioned red envelope seems to convey an outdated message to people, which is contrary to the blessings we are trying to convey.
3. Equal treatment.
There is a basic criterion for the New Year's money of relatives and friends, that is, to treat them equally. In other words, if relatives and friends have 2 or more children at home, when giving out red envelopes, they must ensure that the amount of money in each red envelope is the same. This is very crucial, and it is related to the feelings of the children and the harmony of the whole family.
Children have an innate sense of comparison, comparing what they have gained with their own fellow citizens or children of the same kind. In the process of comparison, they see the subtle differences in the number of red envelopes, which will make them feel disappointed and disappointed. Especially during the Spring Festival, it will make these children cry non-stop.
Imagine that in the middle of a festive festival, the cry of a child suddenly comes to ruin the tranquility and make everyone feel uneasy. In addition, crying during the Chinese New Year is also regarded as a bad omen, which has a great impact on the mood and luck of the whole family and even relatives and friends.
4. Use new banknotes.
When preparing red envelopes, pay attention to the use of new banknotes. Red envelopes not only represent money, but also represent the elderly wishing the younger generation good health, happiness and well-being. In this way, the new version of the banknote can better convey such wishes and happiness.
Using crumpled banknotes as "red envelopes" is not only aesthetically detrimental, but also easy to complain about. Because the folded banknotes can make people feel old, unlucky, and do not match the atmosphere of the new year. Therefore, we must make red envelopes with new banknotes as much as possible.
Some people may feel that this is redundant, just hand over the money. However, on special days such as the Spring Festival, relatives often have one or more children. If you don't pay attention, make a mistake, or miss a child, it's easy to misunderstand and embarrass you.
These questions can easily be avoided by adding some wishes to the letter. Each red packet has its own unique font so that you can easily tell which one is yours. In this way, you can ensure that each of your children receives your care and attention equally, and that you will not be unnecessarily troubled by your negligence.
In addition, the greeting left on the red envelope is also your deepest expectation and best wishes for your children. Whether it's a phrase of "I wish you good health in the new year" or a more personal phrase, it can make them feel that you care about them. This kind of red envelope is not only a gift, but also a kind of emotional communication, which makes this special day a little more warm and joyful.
6. Send it in front of parents.
When we give it to a child, we should remember to do so in front of the parents. Never give it to your children alone, because some children are smart and they understand the importance of money. If you give them a small red envelope, they will lie to your parents that you didn't give them the red envelope and keep the money for yourself. In that case, you will be at a loss for words, and it is easy to cause some unnecessary misunderstandings.
Therefore, if you want to prevent such a thing, it is better to hand over the red envelope in front of your parents. This not only ensures that the red envelope does reach the children, but also makes the parents feel your care and wishes for them. In this way, conflicts caused by misunderstandings or lies by children can be prevented, so that everyone can have a happy and harmonious New Year.