A girl came to me and asked me if I was dissatisfied with her and very disappointed when I went to my boyfriend's house for the first time and carefully prepared a gift, but my boyfriend's parents did not give me a red envelope. In Shanghai, is there a custom of giving red envelopes, after inquiry, some say yes, some say no, is there any?
The first time we met to give a red envelope, as well as a bride price, a drop-off fee, a change of mouth fee, this kind of thing, there was definitely no one in Shanghai before, the drop-off fee, the change of mouth fee and the like, all of which I have seen on the small **. But now is there anything really hard to say too absolutely, you say no, and immediately some fans said that her boyfriend is from Shanghai, and she took a big red envelope for the first time.
Because now, it is very common for Shanghai to intermarry with other places, and some customs will slowly affect Shanghai, for example, Shanghai boys do not have this custom, but the girlfriend has a local custom, in order to express sincerity, according to the girl's local customs to deal with a red envelope, this will definitely have, and according to the woman's custom to give a bride price.
I've even seen that some places give red envelopes to girls who come to the door for the first time, giving 10,000 and 1 yuan, saying that it means one in a million, which is very scary in Shanghai, and Shanghai only adds 1 yuan when the funeral gives a white envelope.
Let's talk about it, the first time you went to your boyfriend's house, did you get a red envelope? When boys go to girls' homes, do they also have the custom of red envelopes? How much is generally appropriate, which means that parents are more satisfied with each other? Is the custom of giving red envelopes common in Shanghai? If both men and women are Shanghainese, will they give red envelopes?