After watching "South to North" for so long, I discovered that the Achilles heel of the two young female characters in this drama, Ma Yan and Yao Yuling, had already been explained by the director through a few "buttons".
Let's start with Jacy Yao.
What she liked at first was Wang Xin, and the way she expressed her "love" was very simple.
One is to help the Wang family work, and the other is to help Wang Xin nail buttons.
A blue dress with blue buttons, Yao Yuling had to mix a red button with it. Wang Xin's first feeling was "abrupt" and "incongruous".
Due to Yao Yuling's enthusiasm, she reluctantly accepted it.
This is actually implying that Yao Yuling is like the red button for Wang Xin, which is not suitable.
But the girls took the initiative to become like this, and Wang Xin was confused and obedient.
And Yao Yuling's matter of nailing buttons to Wang Xin happened to be seen by Niu Dali.
Niu Dali has been in love with Yao Yuling for a long time, and in order to experience the feeling of being cared for, he hung his buttoned pants to Wang's house.
Sure enough, Yao Yuling was deceived ......
Judging from Niu Dali's move, he is not love for Yao Yuling at all, but obsession and possessiveness.
From beginning to end, he knew that Yao Er didn't love him at all.
But for him, it doesn't matter.
No matter what method of deception is used, as long as she gets Yao Er, who she has in her heart, he doesn't care.
Niu Dali seems humble to Yao Yuling, but he is actually very strong.
He stole the egg king to Yao Er to eat, Yao Er didn't know at all, and inexplicably became a **.
As soon as Yao Er agreed to be with him, he tried to change her and make her buy less clothes and spend less money.
Yao Er broke up with him, and he threatened ...... with suicide
Sure enough, how disgusting it is to deceive other people's big girls into buttoning their trouser doors, and how uncomfortable his methods of pursuing Yao'er are later.
Therefore, many people say that Niu Dali's love is touching, but I think that this love is very heavy and dangerous.
The fate between Jia Jinlong and Yao Yuling is also because of a button.
And this button is also the only one of all the buttons sent by Yao Yuling back to her hand again.
This proves that no matter what kind of person Jia Jinlong is, whether he is pure to Yao Yuling or not, the relationship between them is a two-way street.
It is reasonable for the two to become husband and wife later.
Although the buttons are small, for Yao Yuling, they are like "hydrangeas" thrown out by ancient ladies, which are used to express love.
Yao Yuling's buttons have been given to three men, proving that she is not dedicated to her feelings.
And trying to exchange a small button for a man's money, identity, status and other resources proves that she is a pleasure woman.
Such a woman is beautiful and talented, and in a relationship, there will be no more substantial contributions in addition to emotional value.
Yao Yuling seems to be dressed boldly and fashionably.
But as mentioned above, her method of hanging a man with a button is equivalent to throwing a hydrangea by an ancient lady, adhering to the traditional marriage idea of "relying on a man when you get married".
It is precisely because of this kind of thinking that she attaches great importance to the material conditions of the other party.
She will also run away impatiently when Wang Xin's work encounters setbacks.
And Ma Yan is different.
When she first started her business, she chose to "sell buttons".
In addition, they sell new styles of buttons that are not available in the local area.
The purpose of her business is to save money for marriage with Wang Xin.
From this point, it can be seen that although Ma Yan dresses in a low-key and simple manner, she is the representative of a new generation of independent women affected by the "reform and opening up".
But Ma Yan also has shortcomings.
When she first set up a stall to sell buttons, she was embarrassed to sell her goods even though her goods were beautiful and cheap.
Just like she is.
was originally good-looking, down-to-earth, hard-working, and responsible, but he didn't realize these advantages, and he kept a low profile for a long time, and his own brilliance was also disguised.
Moreover, Ma Yan is too practical and does not love those flashy things at all, which leads to her lack of skill and interest in emotional relationships.
For example: Wang Xin returned from a business trip and wanted to get close to her, but her mind was full of work.
It's a bit of a disappointment.
This kind of woman in life needs to get along for a long time in order to gradually show her preciousness.
The suitable emotional mode is also a long-term and long-term affection type.
is far less than Yao Yuling, who is sweet and flamboyant, to make people "go up".
Therefore, a woman like Ma Yan is easy to lose.
In the play, although Wang Xin also shows a loveless look on her face from time to time because of her incomprehensible style.
But Xiao Wang's character is still good, and the relationship between the two is also deep.
If you change to a husband who doesn't know how to be grateful and has a poor character, Ma Yan is easy to be thankless and suffer a dark loss.
So, sisters who read this article, in life, are you more like Yao Yuling or Ma Yan?
No matter who we are, playing to our strengths and avoiding our weaknesses will make our future journey smoother.