As the saying goes: good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June.
In real life, a sincere word of praise, care and encouragement can often make people feel warm and stimulate positive energy in their hearts.
A malicious ridicule, sarcasm, and ridicule will make people have negative emotions such as low self-esteem and anxiety, and may even affect the life and health of others.
At a rural wedding scene in Guizhou, before the wedding began, the bride suddenly lost control of her emotions and refused to visit the church.
The groom and many relatives and friends present were in a panic and wandered helplessly, not knowing how to face this sudden situation, and the atmosphere was very embarrassing.
It is said that the trigger for all this stemmed from the fact that some people in the village pointed fingers at the bride and groom.
Perhaps some people judge the appearance and dress of the bride and groom, and even ridicule and ridicule, which triggers strong dissatisfaction with the bride.
Relatives and friends present said: "Everyone has the right to choose their own happiness, and don't speak ill of others. ”
Netizens also commented: "The bride is very cute, I really hate those who disrespect people and make irresponsible comments." ”
I never laugh at anyone, this is the basic morality of being a human being! To tell you the truth, I'm not as good as this bride, let alone wearing a wedding dress, I haven't even seen a wedding dress. ”
Why do you want to embarrass her, isn't it good for everyone to be happy and have a meal to bless the two of them? ”
It looks very simple, what's ridiculous, I wish the newcomers to grow old together and tie the knot forever. ”
In this era of rapid development, people are constantly striving for perfection and excellence, but they often ignore the ordinary people around them.
However, it is these ordinary and ordinary people who have forged each unique individual and shined with a unique light.
The glamorous characters around us all seem to have a flawless life.
However, this is not the case. Everyone has their own flaws, it's just that some people choose to hide and some choose to face them.
These deficiencies may be due to physical, psychological, or family background.
However, it is these flaws that make them more resilient in the face of adversity and exude a unique personality charm.
The ancients said: "No one is perfect." ”
No one is perfect, and everyone will have their own flaws. Defects are not entirely negative, they can be an asset.
Like Venus with a broken arm, her imperfections make her more mysterious and beautiful, and it is because of her imperfection that people pay more attention to her inner beauty.
In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, each with their own flaws.
For us, respecting others and not judging others arbitrarily is a basic moral cultivation.
This not only makes the other person feel warm, but also makes you more mature and tolerant.
Everyone has their own shining point, and learning to appreciate the flaws of others and discover their strengths can make us gain precious friendships and make life better.
Learn to respect others, appreciate differences, and let flaws become a beautiful part of our lives.
Through your words and deeds, you can convey positive energy and create an environment full of love and care.
Only in this way can everyone find true happiness and joy in this rapidly changing era.