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Today I read such a passage:
I don't know what the reason is for me, maybe it's because the pressure is stacked so much that I can't immediately brush away the gloom in my heart, or I will feel sad, and after a moment of contemplation, tears will roll down involuntarily. ”
Recently, many people's inner world is full of tiredness and helplessness, but they are forced to smile in front of others, as if they are pulled to the trough by an invisible force, and on the other hand, they are tenaciously healing themselves, hoping to embrace the light.
Life is varied, each with its own hardships
This is exactly the unspeakable collapse of the adult world.
The so-called sense of boundary is actually a sense of proportion, and as we grow older, we become more and more aware of the importance of grasping it.
Missing a sense of boundaries in everyday life is a dangerous state because it means that your boundaries may be constantly challenged and crossed.
When you interact with others, a lack of boundaries, not only can you behave excessively and cross the boundaries of others, but it can also lead to violations by others, making your otherwise autonomous life seem to gradually become out of your control.
Schopenhauer once had a profound insight:
Life is like a hedgehog in the cold winter
If you get too close to each other, you will inevitably be hurt by each other's thorns
If the distance is too far, it will feel cold and lonely.
Therefore, maintaining appropriate distances and boundaries allows everyone to live freely and comfortably, while also avoiding unnecessary psychological burdens on each other. ”
Therefore, "truly mature people, they know and stick to their personal boundaries, and this sense of boundaries is not only respect for others, but also a kind of protection and love for themselves." ”
When you're under so much stress that you're on the verge of breaking down, there's no need to rush to confide in others or feel wrongedAfter all, everyone has their own lives and troubles
Very few people can truly experience your pain.
As Yu Hua said, in the middle of the night, you might as well try to peel back the deep emotions in your heart, self-reflect, self-heal, and then sleep peacefully.
Wait until tomorrow to wake up
We will face the challenges of life again with full confidence and determination.
Do what you are supposed to do, and don't let the annoyance and anxiety wear away your enthusiasm and perseverance.
Even if my heart is broken a thousand times, the things at hand can't stop
To move forward tenaciously in a state of seeming collapse is the quality and cultivation that an adult should have.
This year may have been the hardest I've had so far, but it was also the year I've grown the most.
I am grateful that life has given me this tortuous experience, although it has caused me to panic, but I am convinced that there will always be sunshine in the future.
Every obstacle has to be overcome, and every long night needs to be overcomeJoy and sorrow are self-aware, and it is difficult for others to fully comprehend.
Quietly collapse in silence, silently ** yourself in silence, this is part of life, we learn to find strength in difficulties, temper our will in setbacks, and continue to move forward.
In the adult world, the word "easy" is rare.
Who does not find reconstruction in the midst of brokenness, and the glimmer of hope in the midst of despair.
Everyone is struggling to survive and gritting their teeth to survive one challenge after another.
The ups and downs of life need to be tasted by yourselfThe burden of a thousand pounds has to be borne alone.
In this bustling world, everyone is busy and busy, and no one can fully understand your joys and sorrows, let alone share the hardships for you.
Therefore, we must learn to heal our wounds independently, heal ourselves, and rejuvenate ourselves.
People who have never experienced crying in the middle of the night,
It is not enough to deeply understand the weight of life.
Every bit of suffering and pain we have experienced will shine in the long river of life, turning into a brilliant treasure that illuminates the way forward, giving life incomparable value and meaning.
Follow and thank yourself for running hard.
In the second half of my life, I fought these two things (deep beauty).