Soong Meiling had a special fetish**, and Chiang Kai-shek couldn't bear it.
In the city of Nanjing, there are one plane tree after another, which is said to have been planted by Chiang Kai-shek for Song Meiling. Soong Meiling liked the French-style sycamores that rustled when the wind blew, so Chiang Kai-shek planted sycamores in the streets and alleys of Nanjing.
When I read this story as a child, I was always moved by the romantic love between the lovers. True love needs to prove with actions that their marriage is really as good as we see?
Or is it hiding a secret that no one knows? Today, we are going to tell about this top couple of the ** period, what secrets are hidden in their love stories, and whether their marriage will also have contradictions like ordinary people?
With the rapid development of technology, our lives have changed dramatically. From the past Song Meiling era, to now with various communication tools such as Weibo, Douyin, WeChat, etc., we can communicate with the outside world in a variety of ways, and the way of sharing life has also become colorful.
With just a swipe of your finger, you can share the moments of your life to your circle of friends and let your friends see them. The circle of friends is full of all kinds of interesting things, and the hottest topic is undoubtedly showing affection.
Every festive season, gifts from partners, or interesting travel stories between the two of them, have become a hot topic in the circle of friends.
1.To be sure, not all that is displayed in the circle of friends is real. The affection you see may be just a show, like a dress, gorgeous on the outside, but only you know how you feel inside.
2.What is displayed in the circle of friends is often just the side we want to show. And the real feeling, just like clothes, only you know if it is comfortable to wear.
3.In the era when there are no convenient communication tools, what we can see is only the appearance, and most of the secrets of those wealthy families are known from their servants.
This story is about an enviable couple, a young and promising army general and a pampered eldest lady. Their acquaintance and love for each other has always been regarded as a beautiful legend.
People envy their good match and praise them as a match made in heaven. However, marriage and love are different, love is only a matter between two people, while marriage is a matter involving two families, including the concept of life and the growth experience, all of which need to be run-in.
Chiang Kai-shek's original family was not good, as the second son in the family, his father did not expect much from him, so his childhood was only the insignificant love of his mother, not to mention the fine clothes and food, it was very good to be well fed and clothed.
Children who grow up in such a difficult environment tend to be more mature and pay more attention to the financial situation of their families. They are well aware of the taste of economic hardship, so they understand the importance of increasing income and reducing expenditure, and they are not willing to live that life in fear.
In contrast, Song Meiling was born in a prestigious family and has been pampered since she was a child, she and her sisters enjoy meticulous care at home, and they only need to open their mouths to what they want, and they don't even have to think about it.
This makes the growth experience of the two of them very different, one is a young leader who grew up in hardship, and the other is the eldest lady who has been held in the palm of her hand since childhood.
In this way, two people with very different life backgrounds often disagree on economic issues in marriage.
The relationship between Soong Meiling and Chiang Kai-shek is not as simple as running-in, and the gap between the lives of the two is far more than that. Soong Meiling had lived abroad for a while, so she had a soft spot for Western food, which Chiang Kai-shek was less interested in.
Despite this, in order to take care of Song Meiling's feelings, Chiang Kai-shek still chose to dine with her. This may be seen as a sign of love, but the most important thing is that the two people can understand each other and live in harmony.
If you have to eat food you don't like for a long time, I'm afraid it's hard to call it true love. In addition, as the eldest lady from a privileged family, Song Meiling also needs to face other problems caused by her husband's power.
Therefore, the life of the two is not limited to economy and diet, but also needs to deal with family relations and other issues.
Excellent men always attract the attention of women, and Song Meiling is no exception. She is jealous and longs to have a husband who can be both independent and dependent.
In fact, moderate possessiveness and control are something that every wife has, which is also a sign that she cares about her husband. However, if the possessiveness and control are too strong and interfere with the husband's work, the husband may be dissatisfied.
Soong Meiling often interfered in Chiang Kai-shek's official affairs because of the power of her mother's family, which is a typical example.
Chiang Kai-shek was very dissatisfied with this matter, but due to the power and status of the Song family, these dissatisfaction could only be secretly suppressed by him. However, what made Chiang Kai-shek most unbearable was Soong Meiling's later decision.
As the domestic situation changed, Chiang Kai-shek made a new plan for his future. The relocation of the capital to Chongqing was one of the important decisions, mainly due to political considerations.
As Chiang Kai-shek's wife, Soong Meiling will naturally go with her. However, what Song Meiling didn't expect was that for the sake of safety, Chiang Kai-shek found a place to live for them in the mountains.
There are many mosquitoes in the deep mountains, and the humidity is heavy, and these harsh conditions make it difficult for this pampered eldest lady to adapt for a while.
A series of red rashes appeared on Song Meiling's **, and the itch was unbearable. Medical conditions were limited at the time and there was no way to ** or alleviate the symptoms. The pampered Song Meiling is very distressed by this, and she hopes to move to a different place.
However, Chiang Kai-shek was unable to move the capital for political reasons. In order to alleviate the pain, people around her suggested that Song Meiling try smoking. Although this was not the best way to solve the problem, Song Meiling felt both aggrieved and helpless, so she could only try this suggestion.
In the past years, Song Meiling was surprised by the effect of smoking after trying a unique way. From then on, she began to indulge in smoking, and this incident became unbearable for Chiang Kai-shek.
In today's society, we often encounter people who smoke in public places or enclosed spaces, and their smoke smell is not only harmful to the body, but also has a bad smell. This kind of behavior not only lacks personal cultivation, but also ignores the feelings of others and causes distress to others.
Song Meiling used to have the habit of smoking, and whenever the rash on her body began to itch, she couldn't help but smoke a cigarette to relieve it. For non-smokers, this behavior is undoubtedly torture.
Although Soong Meiling later moved out of Chongqing and was no longer bothered by the rash on her body, she still retained her habit of smoking, which did not change even after Chiang Kai-shek's death.
Chiang Kai-shek neither liked nor had anything to do about this situation, after all, this was his wife, and he could only choose to be patient.
Marriage is not always the end of happiness, everyone has their own lifestyle, attitudes, and hobbies, even in marriage. Some people like to grow flowers and plants, others love to paint, and these differences can cause some friction in life.
However, these can be addressed through communication and understanding. Everyone needs a certain amount of personal space, even between partners. It's important to have your own personal time to do what you love and relax.
However, if the partner has some vices that seriously affect their life, then this problem must be addressed. If it cannot be stopped, or if it is stopped but has no effect, and the other party is unwilling to correct the mistake, then it may be difficult for the marriage to continue.
The concept of marriage in the past is completely different from the present, and the divorce rate today is much higher than in the ** period. Although under the influence of Western thought, people began to advocate free love and allowed women to file for divorce, marriage is still regarded as an extremely solemn thing.
Unless they encounter serious problems that affect their lives and the lives of their families, people often do not easily mention divorce, but choose to be tolerant and try to maintain the marriage relationship as much as possible.
Today's married life is more willing to pursue personal satisfaction. You can choose to get married because of a touching moment, or you can choose to end your marriage because of a sad story.
The pace of life has accelerated, as if they can do what they like as they want.
Times are changing, and so is the concept of love. Marriage is still pure and sacred in the hearts of some people, but in the eyes of most people, it is no longer a necessity in life, and celibacy can live well.
Why are so many people reluctant to enter the palace of marriage? Some people think that marriage is the shackles of love, and build a high wall to protect love, but they don't expect to trap themselves and the rest of their lives in it.
There are also people who think that love nowadays is fast food, and people can meet new people and find new stimuli through various ways, so why bother to die on a person, there will naturally be infidelity.
The love between Soong Meiling and Chiang Kai-shek, although full of contradictions and frictions, still spent a long time together. Song Meiling is not a traditional and ignorant woman, but a modern woman with new ideas and the courage to practice.
She dared to stand on the cusp of the times, and was able to stand firmly, winning global attention. There are very few such women in history. Therefore, such a woman being with Chiang Kai-shek will undoubtedly be beneficial to Chiang Kai-shek.
Later generations talked about their stories, but they have long since disappeared in the tide of history, only in the wind of Jinling City, the rustle of the plane trees, which is a testimony of their love.