"Ten years later, we are friends and we can still say hello. Eason Chan's song "Ten Years" tells the story of the two parties in love after ten years.
Ten years is still a long time in the eyes of many people, but in fact, ten years have passed in the blink of an eye.
Ten years later, we may have changed in appearance and voice, and our former friends don't know if they're still there.
A lot can happen in the intervening decade, some people will have happy events, and some people may have sad events.
Ten years later, it will be the turn of the post-50s and post-60s old people to "cry", and they need to prepare in advance, and most people will face these three problems.
1. Life and death are inevitable
The elderly of the post-50s or post-60s, after 10 years, they have grown by 10 years, but there will be many unacceptable things.
There is no feast in the world, and there is life and death, which is an inevitable law of the development of life, and no one can break it.
Most of the post-50s and post-60s generations have to face the departure of their parents, friends and even their wives.
The parents of the post-50s and post-60s generations have reached a certain age after 10 years, and some of them have physical diseases.
The disease has tormented them for a long, long time, so in ten years, if the disease progresses slowly, maybe their parents will still survive, but if the disease progresses quickly, it is likely that they will not be alive in ten years.
This is an unacceptable thing for the post-50s and post-60s elderly, whose parents raised them and are very close to their emotions, and they can't imagine what life would be like without their parents.
It is also a sad thing for friends to leave first, with decades of friendship, but people say that they are gone, and there are fewer people around to talk and share, and over time, the old people of the 50s and 60s are depressed and sick.
As the person who gets along with each other every day, the wife has supported each other for most of his life, and some of the post-50s and post-60s old people have sick and left, and they are becoming more and more lonely in their hearts.
Second, the relationship between the children is tested
Some people born in the 50s or 60s have given birth to a daughter or son in their lives, and if this child does not care about themselves, then they will fall into a situation of isolation and helplessness.
If you think about it this way, perhaps an elderly person with multiple children is in a much better position than an elderly person with only one child.
If there is only one son, even if the only son is very filial, it is impossible to be at the bedside every day.
In case the son is not filial, then there will be no one to take care of him.
In this way, if it is a post-50s or post-60s elderly with only one child, the children will easily lack skills, have no time to take care of the elderly, and cannot withstand the test.
In addition, children are busy with work, and it is difficult to talk to them all day, and there is a lack of communication and communication between parents and children, and they cannot be sure whether their children are reliable or not, and whether they can be by their side when they are sick and when they need it.
The elderly of the post-50s or post-60s generation will be their own children in addition to their wives after 10 years.
Third, medical costs are facing challenges
In 10 years, people's physical condition is very different than 10 years ago.
If there is a habit of exercising, then the physical condition of these post-50s or post-60s elderly is okay, if they do not exercise and have bad habits, then the disease is easy to find the door.
When a disease appears, you need to spend money to buy medicine and treat the disease, and at this time, it depends on whether you have enough money in your hand.
The post-50s or post-60s have their own pensions, but if the pension is only to maintain daily expenses, it is okay, if it is suffering from a serious illness, it is a bit stretched.
An old man born in the 50s said that he had just withdrawn his pension from the bank and it was quickly spent.
So if you have a physical problem after 10 years, the money will not help at all, which is really worrying.
In order to reduce the occurrence of health diseases after 10 years, the elderly in the 50s or 60s can now have an annual physical examination to test their physical condition and reduce the risk of disease.
Conclusion:
In 10 years, we can't say for sure what will happen to the post-50s and post-60s, but they will inevitably encounter the above three major problems.
If you want to avoid it, you must first correct your mentality and look at the parting of the people around you correctly, after all, life and death are the norm in the world. The second is to strengthen the connection with your children and care for them. Finally, in order to have a good old age, make a good plan and always pay attention to your health problems.
No matter what happens in 10 years, the post-50s and post-60s generations must not be discouraged by difficult problems, because our country and society will also help us.