I usually receive all kinds of questions, and sometimes, after seeing too many questions, I really start to doubt love.
Think about it,There are so many things to fall in love, why bother? Isn't it fragrant to live alone?
But think about it againIt's so troublesome to fall in love, why do you still have all kinds of predecessors and successors?
In the final analysis, it is because love is so beautiful, so everyone has to taste it with all kinds of risks.
In addition to that,If you look at the more problems, you will find that many problems are not problems in the first place
It's just that everyone didn't pay attention at first, and it turned out to be dragged on, and the problem became a problem.
For men and women in love, love is bursting in the love stage, two people are intimate, and many problems will be covered up.
Unfortunately, when the enthusiasm subsides and the friction between the two begins to increase, at this time, learning to get along well is the key, so what exactly do you have to do?
Actually,Between couples, in addition to sex and love, these four things are the key to a long-lasting relationship!
1.Trust.
Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, and for couples, trust is even more indispensable.
Only by building a solid foundation of trust can the relationship be more stable and long-lasting.
You must know that many couples break up in the end, and most of them start with suspicion.
So, trust is really important, and as for how to build trust, different couples face different situations.
It can only be said that honesty, understanding, and support are the key, and timely communication when there are problems can reduce many contradictions.
2.Inclusive.
No one is perfect, and when two imperfect people come together, tolerance is a must.
Taking a step back, even if two people are similar, there will be differences, and some things can't tell who is right and who is wrong, so it is particularly important to tolerate each other within the appropriate range.
Of course, tolerance is not the same as connivance, if the other party has done something badly, it is still necessary to bring it up directly and see how to solve it, rather than making the problem bigger.
3.Space.
After a passionate relationship, it is very important to give each other enough space.
Everyone needs to have their own space and time to pursue what they love
It can be an interest, a career, even if it's just a daze.
In addition to this, keeping a proper distance can also give each other a certain sense of mystery.
Such a sense of mystery can add a lot of vitality to this relationship, after all, things with suspense are easy to arouse people's desire to explore.
4.Grow.
For the vast majority of couples, the novelty is sure to disappear, and the difference between morning and evening is just that.
However, if two people can grow together, then there is an opportunity to continue to recharge love.
Growth is really important, but it is ignored by many couples, so there is "the first sword on the shore, the first to kill the person you like".
In fact, as long as two people "go ashore" at the same time, then the ending may not be the same.
Although this metaphor is a bit realistic, life is so realistic, even love is not exempt from vulgarity.
Actually,Falling in love may seem simple, but it's actually quite complicated. In the love stage, love is bursting, and you can talk about it as much as you want.
After the passionate love, the enthusiasm subsides, and you have to sit down and talk about it.
In addition to sex and love, the 4 points mentioned above are also very important, and men and women in love want to get along well, so you can refer to them appropriately. Finally, I want to say that,Regarding love, since everyone has chosen to follow one another,So, try to enjoy it as much as you can......