**Author: The Captain and the Ship
I was introduced to my boyfriend last summer, and I didn't feel much for him after all this time together. After all, he looks average, has an average height, only has a high school degree, and has an ordinary job, if it weren't for the fact that I am almost thirty years old, I would definitely not be with him.
Although his external conditions are not very good, he is still good to me, and gives me some small gifts or words of concern when I am fine. No matter how strange two people are, they will have feelings after getting along for a long time, let alone the relationship between the two of us. So, slowly, I accepted him as well.
Recently, he has always mentioned marriage to me intentionally or unintentionally, and I have begun to accept it slowly, although I still have some mustard in my heart, am I going to be with this man for the rest of my life? Even though there are thousands of unwillingness, but the truth is so, and it has to be so.
He's in a hurry to get married, and I'm in a hurry. So this year, he invited me to his house for the New Year and officially introduced me to his family, and I agreed. After the holiday, the two of us bought our tickets and went to his house with us. Along the way, I was very excited and nervous, after all, it was a very important thing.
Around the end of the afternoon, when the car arrived, I slowly got out of the car and followed him into the house. I thought there were only two of his parents, who knew that there were a lot of relatives in the house, there must be more than a dozen people, I was naturally more introverted, seeing so many people, I felt at a loss for a while, and immediately tightened his arm, but he didn't feel it, and greeted everyone by himself, leaving me aside.
Later, it was my aunt who came, welcomed us into the house, and poured us a glass of water, which was relieved. It was also on this occasion that his relatives began to chat with me, asking me about my job, my academic qualifications, and my family, and I answered them one by one.
I don't know if I think too much, or if they are intentional, the questions they ask are getting more and more outrageous, and after I answer, they always put on a proud look, do they look down on me? But they haven't seen me, and I think maybe my boyfriend told them something, but after all, they are here, and they don't want to think about it.
After chatting for more than an hour, they finally stopped asking me and turned to chatting with each other, about life, about work, about cars, about a lot of things, and I couldn't interject at all. If you play with your phone by yourself, it seems out of place, as if I don't fit in.
The most embarrassing thing for me is that my boyfriend actually joined the chat, he chatted with them and chatted without even looking at me, you must know that I came here, no one is familiar with me except my boyfriend, since he brought me here, why don't you take care of me a little?
I was quite angry, but I didn't have a good seizure, I overheard the sound of the kitchen, and subconsciously looked over there and found that my aunt was busy in the kitchen. Auntie is really powerful, she manages two stoves by herself, stir-frying and stewing, and from time to time she has to wash dishes and cut vegetables.
On the other hand, these people in the house, they talk and laugh, as if the kitchen has nothing to do with them. I really feel a little pity when I look at my aunt like this. So in the following period, I also paid special attention to her. Although the aunt is very busy, the people in the house seem to be looking for her for everything.
Mom, where are our scissors? The boyfriend asked suddenly, and the aunt quickly poked her head out and said, "It's under the coffee table", and after a while, a woman, I don't know who it was, began to yell again: "Sister-in-law, where is your tea?" "Auntie had no choice but to come out and find tea.
originally thought that this was already the limit, but who knew that in the future, there would be more explosive things. Suddenly, from the next room, an angry man rushed out, and he ran to the kitchen in a huff, and then said; "Sister, have you moved the Internet, why is the Internet so bad? The aunt apologized embarrassedly: "Oops, I didn't pay attention to cleaning up the house." "It's as if it's her fault.
I was next to me, and I was terrified, and I really felt that my aunt was pitiful, she was already so busy in the kitchen, and she had to deal with so many things. After waiting for about an hour, the aunt finished the meals and moved them to the table one by one, and then everyone moved to the dining table to come to eat.
At mealtime, my boyfriend was on my left, and on my right was a female relative, and on the opposite side was my aunt, who had a kind smile on her face, and added food to everyone, and then naturally put the rice cooker next to her. The people around me are very rude, you can't drink soda, you want to drink juice, you can't sit on plastic stools, you have to sit on wooden stools, saying that wooden stools are better for the body? All the requests, all the everything, they shouted at the aunt to do it, and I watched from the sidelines, clenching my fists.
Everyone will also chat, often in no order, a large group of people chat, auntie will also chat, but when she speaks, no one cares about her at all, she said to herself, I look really uncomfortable, so, when she said, I stared into her eyes, she felt my gaze, and also watched me talk, although the topic was not about me or me and my boyfriend, but I also felt very good.
After eating, everyone went to rest again, the table naturally had to be cleaned up by the aunt, and the dishes and chopsticks were also responsible for her, I couldn't stand it, and insisted on helping the aunt do housework together. My boyfriend stopped me at first, and he didn't care about me like this. So I was in the kitchen, and I washed the dishes with my aunt.
When I was working, my aunt said to me with emotion; "Oh, it's good to see that you guys are young, but now I can't do it, I'm not in good health when I'm old. Later, my aunt told me about the events of that year, and she said that it used to be very hard, and after a whole day's work, she had to continue to do something else after dinner, and she was often so tired that she couldn't straighten her waist.
I felt really distressed when I heard this, and I wanted to ask more questions, such as why my uncle didn't help me more, or my boyfriend, but I still didn't ask. When I was done, I collapsed on the couch weakly, and my boyfriend came over and wanted to play mobile games with me, but I was really in no mood at all.
I thought I could rest, but my aunt was like a robot who wasn't tired, sweeping the floor, mopping the floor, and cleaning the glass, so many people in the family were all idle there, playing games, chatting and chatting, and some people were watching TV there, seeing this scene, I really didn't feel good in my heart.
I don't want to talk to my boyfriend anymore, and I don't even want to continue this relationship with him, after all, Auntie's day is my day, what if I marry in and end up with such a result? I was melancholy, and I regretted it a little when I watched my boyfriend giggling and playing games there.
By the evening, some of their relatives were gone, but some of them remained here. The rooms are limited, and the people who are left behind really can't live there, so many people make bunks. Because my boyfriend and I just came back. So everyone graciously left the room to us.
This didn't matter, but the worst thing was that we were in the north, and the temperature in the house was very high, and the living room was better, but the temperature in the room was frighteningly high, and I could sweat just by sitting. In this case, superficial modesty is hypocritical, because everyone knows that the living room is more comfortable, and the room is more uncomfortable.
Of course, I knew, but I couldn't stand their "hospitality" and was finally driven into the room. I went back to the room with my boyfriend for a while, and my boyfriend shouted hot, and went directly to the living room to sleep with the futon, I also wanted to follow, but I didn't think it was good, and there were so many people in the living room, and more importantly, I was more afraid in the house.
I begged my boyfriend to let him find a cool place for me, or to spend time with me in the house, but my boyfriend didn't care about me at all, and they laughed and told me to find a place by myself, and then left directly. I was really disappointed at the time, and when I thought of the daytime, more than a dozen people in the family were there to watch the excitement, and only my aunt had a long hand in the family, and I was even more irritable.
After my boyfriend left, I lay in bed, tossing and turning and couldn't sleep, I thought about a lot of things, thinking about my marriage with him, thinking of my aunt's miserable situation, thinking of the scene when he just left me in the house, I made up my mind, I want to break up with him, I don't have to get married, it's better to never see him again.
This is not a gamble, but the result of careful consideration. Whether it's his family or his person, it's all unreliable. In fact, things gather by like, people are grouped, he and his family complement each other, in fact, they are all the same. I finally stayed up until five o'clock in the morning, I couldn't lie down, so I got up and packed my luggage, and then opened the door and went out.
Fortunately, it is not the New Year now, I can still go back home and spend the New Year with my parents, if I wait for the New Year to come back, I am afraid it will be a problem to even go back. When I first came out of my boyfriend's house, I was still panicking, but when I got on the bus to the city, the unpleasant feeling was swept away, and I felt very relaxed.
About seven o'clock in the morning, my boyfriend's ** finally called, I hung up directly, he sent a message again, first scolded me, asked me why I didn't say goodbye, and then explained to me, saying that I didn't mean not to accompany me last night, I looked at the message he sent, I really thought it was very ridiculous, I didn't even have the idea of replying, and I decided that I must break up with him, even if I was single for a lifetime, I can't interact too much with this kind of person, many things are small and big, and small things can often decide everything, isn't that the case?
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