Hey, dear friends, today let's talk about a sensitive but very common topic - why did people who were all about you at the beginning give up on you in the end?
I'll tell you a story first. This is a girl who meets a boy who is as pure as a blank sheet of paper and knows almost nothing about love, but he is full of love for girls. Every day at noon and night, the first call can't stop their sweetness from being in different places. But here's the problem, what about the girl, she has a terrible temper, willful, proud, and always lets the boys revolve around her.
For example, if a boy agrees to chat at ten o'clock, he can't be ten minutes late, and the girl can ** immediately. She also has to ask about the girls and ex-girlfriends he liked before, and even if the answer is satisfactory, she will still be jealous and angry.
Over time, the blackmail of this emotion exhausted the boy. He has to deal with the girl's emotions at all times, while also being busy with his studies and work. Every time the girl said to break up, although they reconciled after five minutes, the boy's heart was torn apart again and again. Finally, one day, he agreed to break up because he couldn't hold on anymore.
Only then did the girl realize that her willfulness had forced away the boy who was willing to give up everything for her. She remembered how good he was to her - sending lemon tea overnight, saving money to buy the little things she liked, and giving up her hobbies just to accompany her.
What does this story tell us? In love, willfulness and selfishness are toxic, and they can slowly erode the feelings of two people. No one is born to accommodate another person, love requires mutual understanding and respect. If you find yourself starting to look like this girl, you might as well stop and think about whether you should think more about the other person.
Love is a matter of two people, not a one-sided giving. Don't wait until the other person is exhausted to regret it. So, cherish the people in front of you, and don't let willfulness become a stumbling block in your love.
Well, that's all for today. If you have a similar experience, please share it in the comment section. Remember, love should be equal, heart should be gentle, and we will see you next time!