There's one thing I'd like to share with you. There is a 28-year-old man who has been in a relationship for eight years but divorced after a year of marriage. Half a year after the divorce, he deceived a 20-year-old girl and impregnated her within three months. This little girl was very sure that she had met true love, and felt that this uncle was very gentle and considerate to her, and even decided to give birth to the child.
The woman's family believes that although the man is married for the second time, he has no children with his ex-wife, and he has a car, a house and no loans, and his income is good, and he is also a painful person. They think that since they are pregnant with a child, they should give birth. Although it is a second marriage, it will look better to wear a wedding dress after giving birth, and then get a certificate and make up the wedding. The woman's family felt that their daughter was moving in with a bag, so they did not ask for a name, nor did they give a dowry, and even the honeymoon plan was temporarily shelved. The man spent less than 50,000 yuan before and after to buy a diamond ring of about one carat.
However, with the birth of the child, the man suddenly proposed to break up. He said that he didn't want to go shopping anymore and that he was willing to keep the child, but he and the woman did not have a license, and the woman could bring someone else. As for child support, he will not ask the woman to pay it, and will even help her keep it a secret. If the woman does not agree, then she can only go to court. And he said that his business was not doing very well, and if the woman wanted to divide the property, she could only share his debts. If the woman wants to have a child, then they can raise it slowly by themselves, but he will not give much child support, and the child is not rare.
Faced with such a situation, the woman also felt that what the man said was reasonable, so she gave up custody. Then shockingly, the man turned around and remarried his ex-wife. Because his ex-wife couldn't have children, they divorced. In order to keep a child for himself, this man deceived a stupid Bai Tian and asked her to raise the child. Now he takes the child directly home and raises the child with himself and the love of life.
After hearing this, I really feel that the three views are ruined. I found that many little girls are staring at love now, but how long can love be shelf-lived? Why is it advisable to have a bride price when getting married? The bride price is to increase the cost of silence for the other party. Although it is impossible to tell whether the money you pay is cherished, once the money is given to the other party, the child will be in his hands after pinching his nose and playing love games for a year and a half.
Stories like this make us think about the nature of love and its relationship to matter. What I want to emphasize is the supporting role of the material foundation in love. A solid material foundation can provide a good environment for love and reduce many unnecessary disputes and challenges. When we take into account the various pressures and difficulties in real life, it is also difficult for love to endure a long period of no material support. Therefore, I want to give these forms of marriage a reasonable material evaluation system or threshold, which is a responsible approach, whether it is a man and a woman in a marriage, or a future unmarried, you can think rationally about the problem, to ensure that you choose a more stable and quality form of marriage, for girls, how to look at their love rationally, not too obsessed, obsessed with those flashy and empty things, but also to know how to rationally evaluate in the face of some practical problems, such as houses, cars, savings, jobs, etc