In this complex world, each of us is affected by the words and actions of others. These outside voices are sometimes full of encouragement and positive energy, and sometimes they are full of negativity and doubt. In the face of such an environment, we have learned a survival wisdom: to care about the people and things that are really important to us, and to say to those sources of negative energy, "I don't care, because you don't matter." ”
This phrase is not just a state of mind for self-preservation, it is also a mature philosophy of life. We can't satisfy everyone, and we can't be perfect in everyone's eyes. We have limited time and energy and should be spent on those people and things that really matter, rather than on those inconsequential trivialities and negative emotions.
When we begin to practice this way of life, we will find that our world becomes a wider place. We are no longer bothered by unnecessary comments and judgments, and our hearts become more free and peaceful. We begin to focus more on achieving our goals, caring for our loved ones, and enjoying every moment of our lives.
This is not to say that we have to be apathetic. Rather, it's a deeper form of compassion – we empathize with those who choose to spread negative energy in their lives because they haven't learned how to deal with their inner world. But at the same time, we also choose not to let these negative energies affect our lives.
So, when you're facing life's challenges and dilemmas, when you hear those voices that are trying to hold you back, be brave enough to tell yourself, "I don't care because you're not important." "Focusing on your inner world, your dreams, your happiness, that's the most important thing in life.
In the process, we will grow into a stronger version of ourselves. We will become more resilient, more powerful, and wiser. We are no longer the ego that is easily hurt, but the ego that can face all challenges and difficulties.
Let's keep a strong heart in this complex world. Let our lives no longer be dictated by things that are not important, but defined by our own will and choices. This kind of life is a life full of strength and hope.