Sun Qian is 32 years old, with a 3-year-old daughter and her mother to live with, after the divorce she found a job again, after all, she has an intermediate accounting certificate, and now her salary is 8,000 yuan.
When she came home from work in the evening, she bought the strawberries that her daughter wanted to eat and the green dates that her mother loved to eat.
She changed her clothes, washed her hands, her daughter kept circling around, and her mother had already served the food, she felt so happy.
Huanhuan is 3 years old, but her mother still made her a children's meal, which includes pork ribs, corn, green vegetables and rice, and her favorite fish soup.
And the sauce pork ribs she and her mother eat, hot and sour fat sausages, stir-fried green vegetables, Sun Qian and her mother eat a bit of a heavy taste, her mother always says to change, every day is still the same, she always laughs at her mother, but she really doesn't like to eat light.
After eating, bathing her daughter, and playing with her for a while, she suddenly received Cai Zhen's **, she thought she wanted to see the child, or she wanted to give child support, so she took it.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, are you okay with Huanhuan? How's it going? Does Huanhuan remember me?
Sun Qian frowned and said: Cai Zhen, when we divorced, Huanhuan was just over 1 year old, and after that, you haven't seen the child once, and you haven't given 1 point in child support, do you think she can remember you?
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, I know it's me who is wrong, I will give Huanhuan's child support, let's meet tomorrow and talk about it.
Sun Qian is very strange, according to Cai Zhen's style, he will not take the initiative to give child support, and he has not been in touch for almost 2 years, why did he suddenly meet and talk again.
After work the next day, Sun Qian arrived at the appointed place, there were many people in the square, many elderly people played with their children, and colorful soap bubbles sometimes sprayed on their faces.
Cai Zhen saw her stand up, waved her hand, she went over to sit on the bench opposite him, and said: Say, what's the matter with me?
Cai Zhen smiled and said: Qianqian, you see that we haven't seen each other for so long, you at least ask me if I'm doing well.
Sun Qian smiled and said, "Oh, okay, then you came to send me an invitation?" I'm sorry, I'm not interested in participating, and there's no need for that.
Cai Zhen shook his head and said: Qianqian, I was a ghost at the beginning, and we broke up a long time ago.
Sun Qian didn't speak, to her, Cai Zhen was already a stranger, and she really didn't care much about what he was like now.
Cai Zhen looked at her like this, and could only say: Qianqian, you went to work again, you see that if you didn't leave at that time, maybe we wouldn't have divorced. I was under a lot of pressure at work, and you didn't want to give me money to do business, so I was in a bad mood, and I went out to drink and met her, and I was confused by her for a while.
Sun Qian frowned, she still had to go home for dinner, she was really in no mood to talk to him about this.
Sun Qian: If there is anything to tell me directly, I still have something to do, so I don't have time to hear this from you.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, I am also Huanhuan's father, why are you like this, in fact, I came this time to remarry you, so that Huanhuan can have a complete home.
Sun Qian looked at him with a frown and said: Cai Zhen, I don't know what kind of bad idea you are playing again, but I can tell you clearly that from the moment of divorce, I never thought of remarrying you.
And the alimony you owe had better hurry up and give it to me, otherwise I don't mind suing, you also know my character, as long as I say it, I can do it.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, I'm sincere, you should think about it.
When Sun Qian returned home, Huanhuan and her mother were still waiting for her to eat, and after the meal, she told her mother about Cai Zhen.
Mother: Qianqian, this matter, you have to pay more attention, the old saying is that there must be a demon when things go wrong, think about Cai Zhen's attitude at the beginning, he will remarry in a good manner?
Didn't you say that when you divorced, you were going to redecorate your house and marry that woman?
Sun Qian: Well, I know, Mom, besides, I think my life is pretty good now, and I really don't have the energy to manage another marriage.
Mother: Qianqian, don't think so, a life is quite long, and it is much easier to have someone to lead you with than to be alone.
Sun Qian: Well, I know, Mom, let's talk about it later. But Cai Zhen, I don't think about it, I cheated in the late stage of pregnancy, and I always blame me for not going to work after I got pregnant, I really don't need such a man.
Mom: Well, you just have to figure it out.
Sun Qian felt that Cai Zhen was a little strange, something must have happened, she wanted to inquire in advance, don't suffer after she doesn't know anything.
She flipped through her phone for a long time and sent him a smiling emoji to his little wife, they chatted more when they were eating, and added WeChat, and then she divorced, so she didn't have much contact.
Xiaochun soon said: Qianqian, you still remember me, I thought you blocked me.
Qianqian smiled, Xiaochun is still so enthusiastic, always shining like a little sun, it's hard to dislike her.
She smiled and said: Hehe, why am I blocking you? Xiaochun, did something happen to Cai Zhen?
Xiaochun: Aren't you all divorced? What else does he do?
Qianqian: He suddenly came to me and wanted to remarry me, I thought it was very strange and wanted to ask you.
Xiaochun: Qianqian, this man is really a scumbag, how can he still have the face to remarry?
Xiaochun: Qianqian, don't be confused, when he divorced you, he didn't give you anything, and immediately renovated to remarry, and bought a car for the woman.
Buying flowers and chocolates every day, inviting the woman to a big meal, and after various pursuits, she was finally going to get married, but Cai Zhen was diagnosed with colon cancer, and the woman broke up immediately.
He is not in good health now, there is no one to take care of him, and he doesn't want to sell his house for treatment, so he will lie to you again.
Qianqian didn't expect this result, Cai Zhen actually got colon cancer, which is really unexpected.
Qianqian: Oh, I know, Xiaochun, thank you, I will never remarry him, let alone take care of him, I still have to earn money to raise children.
At the end of the chat, she was a little stunned, it turned out that people are really fragile, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow.
A week later, Sun Qian received Cai Zhen's ** again, he said: Qianqian, how are you thinking about it? In fact, it's better to have the original match, and the child won't suffer, right?
Sun Qian: Hehe, Cai Zhen, let's go to the hospital quickly, don't waste time on me.
Cai Zhen's voice changed significantly, and he said: You know? Actually, it's not that serious, it's still the early days, I just want to give Huanhuan a complete home.
Sun Qian: No need, Huanhuan has not had a father since she was a child, she is used to it. Cai Zhen, we are already divorced, don't contact us anymore, for your sake, I don't want Huanhuan's child support.
After hanging up **, she was a little melancholy, after all, she had shared the same bed and had good times.
When I went back at night, Huanhuan ran around the house like a happy bird.
She is a little sad, after all, when she gets married, who doesn't want to be long, but it's a pity, after all, she has come to the step of divorce, and now, she works hard every day, but he is riddled with illness, I wish him a speedy **.
Sun Qian and Cai Zhen met on a blind date, she was 28 years old at that time, and she was the oldest leftover girl in the eyes of her parents, and her father was not in good health, so he wanted to see her get married and have children.
When we met for the first time, Cai Zhen invited her to pizza, ordered a lot of other delicious food, and bought hot coffee from Starbucks.
Cai Zhen is a very humorous person, as long as he is willing, he can make people happy.
After the meal, she asked for AA, Cai Zhen didn't accept it, and sent her home, gave him a box at the door, it turned out that he also packed a pizza, which was brought to her parents.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, this is what I brought to my uncle and aunt, you go to the microwave to warm it up and let them taste it.
Sun Qian felt that Cai Zhen was really careful, and then he often came to the house and coaxed his parents very happy.
Cai Zhen is doing a small project, and he has already bought a house and a car in full, so his parents let them get married early.
When he got married, Cai Zhen's family gave 158's bride price, her father gave a dowry of 120,000 yuan, and Sun Qian directly completed a 5-year fixed deposit.
In the first year after marriage, the relationship between the two was very good, Cai Zhen liked romance very much, no matter what the festival, he had to give her gifts and take her to a big meal.
Although the gifts are not expensive, sometimes it is a lipstick, sometimes it is a cup, and Sun Qian likes it very much.
1 year after marriage, she became pregnant, at first she had a very bad morning sickness, the whole person lost weight, and after 3 months, she was able to eat again, plus her belly, she became more and more fat.
At that time, Cai Zhen said: Qianqian, you just need to take care of the fetus and give birth to a healthy baby, and I have to make money to support my family.
Dad's health is getting worse and worse, Sun Qian and Mom are very worried, and her belly is getting bigger and bigger, and it is often very hard at night.
One night, Sun Qian's calf cramped, and she couldn't stretch her legs, so she could only push Cai Zhen to rub her legs.
However, after Cai Zhen was pushed to wake up, he got angry directly and said: Qianqian, you can sleep until what time you want tomorrow, and I have to get up early to go to work, can you not toss me.
Sun Qian cried directly at the time, she was already 7 months pregnant, she couldn't sleep comfortably on the top of her stomach, her legs cramped and hurt, and what made her even more sad was Cai Zhen's attitude.
Cai Zhen saw her crying, and said directly: Qianqian, you go and ask, which woman is not pregnant, why haven't I seen others do this, my colleague Sister Liu, is almost 8 months old, and she is still working, you think everyone is with you, and your life is so good.
Sun Qian didn't speak, the pain of leg cramps passed, and she began to doubt this marriage, this man, and the child in her belly.
Cai Zhen is still nagging about those women who insist on going to work even when they are pregnant, and she doesn't want to hear anything anymore.
Sun Qian gave birth to a daughter in the hospital, and after her mother-in-law came to the hospital, she glanced at the child and said: Qianqian, you are almost 30 years old, and when your body is well, hurry up and have another one, it is better to have a boy, otherwise relatives will laugh at you.
After she finished speaking, she frowned, saw the child crying, and said: Hey, I thought this baby was a boy, and when I looked at your belly, it was like a son, how could it be a girl, it wouldn't be dropped.
The child is crying, but the mother-in-law said that it is a mess, she can only say: Mom, the baby is crying, you hurry up to see if it is urinating, or hungry, my milk has not come down yet, what should I do?
The mother-in-law glared at her and said: The child loves to cry, what is the fuss. The other parents on the delivery bed were watching, and the mother-in-law reluctantly changed the baby's diaper and put it in her arms.
The confinement is taken care of by the mother-in-law, the mother has to take care of the father, the mother-in-law is often not at home, and it is several hours to go out to buy vegetables, she has no choice but to get some food when she is hungry alone, and she has time to wash the baby's clothes.
After the full moon, Dad's health was already very bad, and before Dad left, he left a house for Sun Qian and a deposit of 200,000 yuan.
At the insistence of his father, the house and money were only given to Sun Qian, and a notarization was made, Cai Zhen was particularly unhappy about this matter.
After his father died, the child was almost 3 months old, and Cai Zhen began to come home late and asked her for money when he drank.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, I have a project in my hand, I need a lot of money, you sell your house, when the time comes, I will pay you back, and give you an extra 100,000.
Qianqian: Cai Zhen, that house was left to me by my father, I can't sell it, don't think about it.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, then you can give me the deposit, the bride price plus your father gave you, how can there be 500,000 yuan, it's enough.
Qianqian: No, I have saved all the money for a fixed period of time, and I can't withdraw it.
Cai Zhen: Hmph, don't ask me for money from now on, and figure out how to spend your own daily expenses.
Sun Qian looked at him in shock and said: I don't have a job now, and the child is only 3 months old, so you don't even give money? Not to mention what you earn every month, don't you still have a house for rent?
Cai Zhen: The house, the house, and the car are all mine, don't even think about it. Qianqian, you woman is so vicious, she doesn't give me the money she saves to spend, and she still cares about my money, no wonder your father has such a short life.
Sun Qian slapped him directly and said: Cai Zhen, you are also a person with parents, are you still human when you say this kind of thing?
After that quarrel, Cai Zhen didn't go home for 1 week.
When he returned home, he bought another bouquet of flowers and a gold ring for her, a simple finger ring, simple and delicate.
Cai Zhen saw that she was feeding the child, and she simply cooked, and after the meal, Cai Zhen said: Qianqian, I am your husband, we are a family, you can sell the house, the money will be invested in me, and I will buy you a new house when I bring it.
Sun Qian ignored him and said: I haven't paid my living expenses for this month, hurry up and give it to me, I will buy diapers for the child tomorrow.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, the child can't be too used to it, my mother said, the child is to be free-range, you get some diapers, wash it often.
Sun Qian was so disappointed at this moment, she asked her mother to help her take care of the child, she planned to go out and find a job, otherwise there was really no way to live this day.
When the child was 6 months old, Sun Qian knew that Cai Zhen was cheating, and someone added her WeChat, and the note was Cai Zhen's name, and she added it with a frown.
After a while, the other party sent her a lot of **, she and Cai Zhen ate together, Cai Zhen bought her gifts, etc.
Sun Qian: Since you know me, you should know that he is married and still with him, don't you feel ashamed?
The woman said: I can't blame me, I heard that after you gave birth to a child, you are still the same as before you gave birth, you have become a pig, hey, you don't manage your body like this, Cai Zhen is so rich, can he be willing to live with you?
The woman: Besides, you don't have a job yet, you have a short family all day, you don't understand what he says, you don't have a common language, I'm different, I'm only 25 years old, I have a good body, I have a good job, and we are all talking about getting married.
Sun Qian: That's also after my divorce, otherwise I would have sued him for bigamy.
That woman: You are a woman who is really embarrassed by women, your husband doesn't love you anymore, and you still hold on to it, can you have some success.
Qianqian: Hehe, when San is so straightforward, I don't know who taught you, don't contact me in the future, you all make me sick.
After she took a screenshot of the information just now, she sent it directly to Cai Zhen, and then said divorce.
Cai Zhen called ** after a while, saying: Qianqian, you have to think about it, you don't have a job now, you really want to get a divorce, how do you live?
Sun Qian smiled and said: You didn't get divorced, and you didn't give it to your family, so it's the same whether you divorce or not.
Cai Zhen: Qianqian, you can't say that, it's not easy for a divorced woman to get married, not to mention that you still have an oil bottle, fat and old, who else wants you besides me?
Sun Qian: Hehe, then you don't have to worry about it, you can worry about how much compensation you give me first.
Cai Zhen: Hehe, you are still an intermediate accountant, don't you have any common sense? The house and car are my pre-marital property, and you don't think about it at all.
Sun Qian: Hehe, how much did you spend on that woman? It's all recoverable, don't hide or transfer, otherwise you will be punished twice as hard as you find out.
After the **, she quickly found a lawyer to consult related matters, and at the same time, she entrusted a lawyer to handle related issues, and she was busy looking for a job.
She gave the lawyer the evidence of Cai Zhen's cheating, and then began to work hard to find a job.
When her daughter was 10 months old, Sun Qian found a job as an accounting supervisor in a company, with a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan, although it was lower than the original, but the benefits were good, and she was still very satisfied.
The lawyer contacted her, and Cai Zhen made a lot of money from a project in the late stage of her pregnancy, and he bought a house for the woman, but he has not yet obtained evidence.
Sun Qian's heart was cold after seeing it, she remembered that during that time, she was very uncomfortable, but she didn't expect her husband to buy a house for another woman.
No wonder after the child was born, he kept asking her to sell the house and give him the money to do projects.
Sun Qian thought, Cai Zhenzhen is not a person, his wife is pregnant and gave birth to a child, buys a house for other women, and asks his wife to sell his house and give him money to do projects, what is the structure of his brain.
Cai Zhen hasn't been home for a long time, and Sun Qian doesn't care about him, anyway, she has already sued for divorce.
The woman later sent her a message, it turned out that she was only 25 years old, and she was still studying for a bachelor's and master's degree, and the conditions were really good, but she was still willing to be a third, and she was speechless.
Qianqian didn't block her, and took screenshots of her messages every time to save them, and sometimes deliberately asked about the house.
She thinks she is a winner, she has just graduated, she already has a house, and she often has gifts, and if she marries Cai Zhen, she has a husband who can make money, of course, she will be all kinds of snorts.
Sun Qian really likes this girl, she doesn't need to ask at all, she can't wait to tell her all the flowers she bought, maybe she wants to make her jealous, or bask in happiness.
However, what she didn't know was that she had already given up on him, she just wanted to fight for what belonged to her own and let the child live a better life in the future.
When the child was more than 1 year old, Sun Qian divorced, Cai Zhen cheated in marriage, which caused very serious harm to her who had just become pregnant and gave birth, and in order to force her to sell the house, she was coldly violent, and the house she finally bought was given to her, including child support.
After negotiation, because it is a full-payment house, the house is directly recorded in the name of her daughter Huanhuan, which is really good, her daughter is already a family with a house at a young age.
In court, Cai Zhen didn't admit it, scolded her for being despicable and shameless, and framed him, but the lawyer directly gave the screenshot information in court, so he didn't say anything more.
However, her mother-in-law got angry, saying that she was a **, deceived her son of a house, scolded her very ugly, and was finally kicked out by the bailiff.
The judge stated that Cai Zhen cheated in marriage and gave birth regardless of his pregnant wife, which violated public order and good customs and should be severely punished.
With the help of a lawyer, the house was transferred to Huanhuan not long after marriage, and she moved to her mother's house with her children, and she always felt that her father was always with them.
She deposited the rent of her house to her mother, and the rent of Huanhuan's house was deposited into Huanhuan's account, so that her mother had a pension of more than 3,000 yuan per month, and she also let her mother save it, so that if her mother got sick, she would not run out of money.
Her salary has also been saved, and she has also done the accounting of three small companies, earning more than 6,000 per month, which is completely enough for three people.
Making money can really be all hypocritical, for the sake of her children and mother, she worked hard to earn money after marriage, and she didn't feel the pain brought by divorce.
Now that Huanhuan is 3 years old and is in kindergarten, Cai Zhen ran out again and wanted to remarry, which was really unexpected.
But she had already been injured once, how could she accept his crooked neck tree, for her, she just wanted to stay away from him, or never see him again in this life.
After listening to his story, I was still very emotional, so bless him, as long as he stopped pestering her.
Qianqian blocked all of Cai Zhen's *** efforts to prepare for the CPA exam, as long as she passed the exam, the leader said that the salary would be at least 13,500 yuan, which was the most important thing for her.
Sun Qian felt that she was too busy, but she was very happy, when she went home at night, her daughter brought her slippers, her mother cooked food for her, and the three of them went on an outing together on the weekend, this is the day she wants the most at present.
Maybe in the future, I will meet someone who wants to hold hands with her for the ...... of my life
Written at the end: No one doesn't want to have a happy marriage, but if you really encounter betrayal, it's best to think clearly about what you want, and then break off decisively, so that you don't consume.
In the adult world, no one can live without leaving, but all the efforts should be cherished and respected by each other in order to keep happiness fresh.
No matter where you are or where you fall into, you must take root downward, blossom upward, and live up to life and yourself. Come on.