In this complex world, each of us is struggling to survive and succeed. Faced with life's challenges, we often feel tired and confused. Sometimes, we lose ourselves by focusing too much on what others think and evaluate; Sometimes we get exhausted because we can't say no to someone else's request. However, there is one attitude to life that can help us get rid of these troubles, and that is selective indifference. This indifference does not make us ruthless and unrighteous, but it allows us to learn to protect ourselves and focus on our own growth and happiness. It teaches us how to stay calm and awake in this complex world, how not to be distracted by outside voices, and how to focus on our inner world and goals.
First, we need to be clear about our boundaries. This means that we need to learn to say "no". In our daily lives, we are often faced with various requests and expectations. Some requests may come from our friends, family, or colleagues who want us to help them solve a problem or complete a task. However, these requests are sometimes beyond our capabilities or contrary to our goals. In this case, if we care too much about the opinions and evaluations of others, we may be forced to accept these requests, leading to ourselves in a difficult situation. Therefore, we need to learn to say no. This is not a selfish act, but a way of self-preservation. By rejecting requests that are beyond our capabilities or contrary to our goals, we can better protect our time and energy and focus on what we really want to do.
Second, we need to focus on our lives. This means that we need to shift our attention back from others and on ourselves. In the world we live in, there are many things that may attract our attention, such as various information on social **, events on TV news, words and deeds of people around us, and so on.
However, this information is not always useful or meaningful to us. Sometimes, they can even distract us from what we really want to do. Therefore, we need to learn to sift through information and focus on what is useful or meaningful to us. In this way, we can better understand our needs and feelings and achieve our goals.
Furthermore, we need to accept the ups and downs of life. There will always be some ups and downs in our lives. Sometimes, things will go very smoothly and we will feel very happy and satisfied; Sometimes, things go unexpectedly or challengingly, and we feel frustrated or lost. However, these ups and downs are all part of life, and we can't control everything. In this case, we need to learn to accept reality and adjust our mindset. We can't change things as they are, but we can change our own perspective on things. In this way, we can turn negative emotions into positive motivation to push ourselves forward.
Finally, we need to maintain physical and mental health. Both physical health and mental health are very important in our lives. Only when we are physically healthy can we better cope with life's challenges; Only with mental health can we better face the stresses and difficulties in life.
Therefore, we need to pay attention to diet and exercise to maintain good health; At the same time, we also need to learn to relax and regulate our emotions to maintain our mental health.
In conclusion, selective indifference is an attitude towards life that helps us better cope with the troubles and challenges in life. By setting boundaries, focusing on our lives, accepting life's ups and downs, and staying physically and mentally healthy, we can take better control of our lives and achieve our goals. In the process, we will not only become stronger, but also luckier. Let's choose indifference and embrace the life of transshipment!