An unbearable emotion torments women's hearts, they are deeply immersed in it, constantly internal friction, but they don't have the courage to give up, why?
Three cases illustrate that women sometimes covet these things.
One, I still like him.
My husband cheated on me, but I still like him, and women don't understand their actions.
One woman reported that she found two fixed transfers from her husband to different women.
When she learned this, the woman's heart was very tormented and painful, and she loved her husband very much, and even when he made mistakes, she still liked him very much.
So, she chose to be silent, she didn't want to directly pick out her husband, if she did, she had to leave, if she didn't leave, she would definitely be despised by her husband.
But her heart couldn't be calm, so she frantically hinted at her husband and said to her husband, my best friend's husband transfers pocket money to other women, what do you think? The husband never accepts the call and still keeps in touch with the women outside.
The woman has no tricks and doesn't know what to do.
Greedy for his love, she didn't dare to expose it, she regarded men as treasures, but men treated her as grass, and refused to spend money for her and her children, but thousands, thousands of them were transferred to women outside.
If a woman doesn't care about her worth, who cares?
Second, we used to be very good.
Every relationship has had a good time, if you miss the beauty of the past, you will make yourself silent and pay more and more, and you can't pull it out.
The woman is too prosperous, and after remarrying, with her great help, the man has gone from negative to millions a year.
But men's hearts are getting closer and closer to their ex-wives and children.
The daughter he had with his ex-wife would call ** every day, Dad I miss you, Dad I love you, Dad I want to be with you.
This is done every day, which makes the woman very uncomfortable, and while she is worried about this matter, her husband's ex-wife and children move to live with her mother-in-law.
The woman couldn't stand it anymore, so she had a fierce quarrel with the man, and the two sides were cold and violent to each other, and later, the man directly lost contact, and the circle of friends also blocked her.
A friend told her that the man had gone on a trip with a family of three on his ex-wife's birthday.
The woman is extremely distressed, she lends a lot of money to the man to help the man restart his career, and now that he is developed, his heart returns to his ex-wife, so what is herself? What about that once beautiful relationship?
If you miss the beauty of the past, you can't face the reality, and you can't see the true face of men.
3. Unwillingness to face and self-deception.
From the second year of marriage, the man was distracted, the man apologized, and she forgiven.
More than ten years have passed, and the man has fallen ill again, and the woman and the man have negotiated with each other.
The husband's attitude is arrogant: If you can accept it, you can accept it, and if you don't accept it, I can't quit.
The woman is a very traditional woman, who gives what she can for the family and children every day, while her husband only works and socializes, and does not care about anything at home.
There is no way to take her husband, she is like an ostrich, burying her head, forbearance and compromise.
Slowly, she lost her judgment and began to numb herself, even thinking that all marriages were nothing more than that.
When a woman is betrayed, she is always used to fighting herself, putting herself in a negative mood of anger, disappointment, and discouragement, but she is afraid to face the problem.
Shouldn't a woman fight the man on the other side?
Written at the end: When betrayal occurs, pain is a normal emotional reaction, and we should not suppress and escape, but should have the courage to face it.
The sooner you can get rid of your pain, the more time and space you can give yourself to heal and make yourself confident and strong as soon as possible.
We can re-examine the emotional relationship, communicate openly with the other person, explore the true thoughts of the other person, and make the most correct choice about the emotional relationship trade-offs.
Whatever your choice, learn to take responsibility for your decisions and don't let the pain of the past affect your future life.