Teach you how to pass girls' exams and win girls' hearts. Have you ever had such an experience in your contact with a girl? I don't know if I said it wrong** and did it wrong, I started to say it well, and I was inexplicably cold. At this time, the more you want to explain and please her, and even ask the girl why she is cold to him, the result is that he will never contact you again.
Girls ask these questions for a purpose, a screening system based on the experience they have accumulated after getting along with people, while boys will have a coping system to make themselves look like the right person for the other person. The girl's test is to test whether the boy is consistent on the table and whether the behavior is in line with his own contact, after all, the girl does not want to meet a boy who is cheating ***, so the girl's test is necessary.
The questions on the girls' exam are not friendly to boys. Understand that attracting and liking are not the same thing.
For example, your first impression with her is not very good, but this does not mean that your relationship is hopeless, and in the process of getting along with you, the girl will go through various tests to see if you are worthy of being with a man. If girls are interested in you, they will ask you all kinds of questions, in fact, these questions are hidden, girls will not waste their time on a boy who is not interested, and they will not have a good impression of the boy to show themselves too much. So girls will choose tests to determine if they can have further development with you.
For example, when a girl asks about your salary, the wrong way to say "ok" or to show off or belittle herself. Or you can ask a girl why you ask that. At this time, the girl's heart has already listed you as a list of people who cannot continue to communicate. The correct answer is that the salary is okay, and occasionally take your parents out on trips to see the outside world. At this time, the girl will feel that you are a happy family. The boy can also add that if we can be together in the future, we can travel together. This reaction seems to have passed the test in the girl's mind.
In the face of a girl's exam, don't rush to express yourself, want to explain or explain to her. Through such a test, the girl will think that you are a filial boy who likes to travel and has a richer life.
Passing the basic test will make the girl have a good opinion of you, and it is precisely because your likability increases that they will have more difficult and specific tests waiting for you.
For example, if a girl wants to further test your relationship, she will say, we don't seem to know each other very well. You said we get to know each other. Girls are usually not interested in this reaction. The correct answer is that if you want a more advanced relationship, you have to take the initiative. Girls will say, I'm reserved. Actually, her heart is not so reserved. Such an answer will make her feel that you understand her point of view, and such an answer will pass the test. This technique can be summarized as maintaining your own attitude and guiding the other person to take the initiative rather than agreeing with the other person's answer.
Girls will inadvertently show up for exams, and if boys are not prepared, your relationship can become strained at any time. So first of all, the guy has to recognize if the girl is testing your ability, so that they can deal with it more calmly, so that they can better grasp the relationship between you. If a girl is interested in you, then she will definitely test you. The purpose of the girl test is to find the person she wants, and the girl can see many things through the test, such as responsibility, security, and charm.