Parents chatted hotly, Zhang Xingxing's father appeared in a small situation, and the other party doubted life!
Zhang Xingxing's father disguised"Little sadness", on the other hand, doubts about life.
Family education has a great impact on students, and the family environment directly shapes the child's character. Therefore, we often emphasize that parents should be mindful of their words and actions when dealing with their students. In the usual communication with students, it is also necessary to respect the opinions of students and avoid suppressing students as a person who has come before.
Parents can be said to be a mirror of the student's behavior, and the student imitates the words and deeds of the parent from birth. Students can be seen as a one-of-a-kind copy of their parents, and in the era of quality education, students need to:"Morality, intelligence, physique, beauty"and in this process, family education is crucial.
Every family is unique, and so do the parenting styles and philosophies. However, there are times when certain behaviors of parents are really unacceptable. While it is inevitable that students in the same class will encounter different family backgrounds and parenting styles, most will choose to tolerate even some unpleasant parental behavior. However, Zhang Xingxing's father was an exception, and he responded directly to the unpleasant remarks.
There are always some parents who think they are superior and seem to be full of superiority in their usual conversations. Although this may be due to the superior family conditions, there are still some issues to be aware of when speaking out in the parent group. Sometimes, overly arrogant remarks can offend others. However, Zhang Xingxing's father did not worry so much, but faced him directly:"How can you talk nonsense, it's like the head of a zebra, the head is the way"。Such a direct answer is really relieving.
Since each family's financial situation is different, it is natural that there will be some in the classroom"Second generation"Students, i.e., students with better economic conditions. These students are much more invested in their education and don't have to worry too much.
Although we are full of envy, there are indeed differences, and we can only hope that the future efforts of the students will lead to better development. Parents know this, but sometimes it can be intentional to express this difference publicly"Slap in the face"。For example, Wang Jinlei's mother ridiculed other children in the group, saying that it was difficult for them to reach the starting point of their own children, which caused Zhang Xingxing's father to be dissatisfied and directly scolded the other party.
Friction between students is normal and sometimes forming"Small groups"But it's all a matter of the students themselves. As long as there is no physical injury involved, parents often choose to let students solve the problem on their own, which helps develop their social skills.
It is normal for children to have some small personalities and do not want to play with one child today and another tomorrow. However, it is a bit too much for parents to directly accuse each other in the parent group. Zhang Xingxing's father will not let go of this kind of thing, and a little thing can attract his attention and reaction.
Student safety is always paramount. In the event of an emergency, the school will release students early, but there are times when parents are unable to pick up their students. At this point, schools and teachers have to make arrangements to pick up and drop off students on the bus or with the help of co-workers' parents, and most parents understand.
Some parents will not appreciate the teacher's preparation and the help of other parents, and even say it bluntly"Can I rest assured that I will hand it over to someone else? This attitude is very hurtful, Zhang Xingxing's father directly entered the battle mode, accusing the other party of talking in the parent group, ignoring the fact that his son has been taken away.
Parents speak and act not only on their own, but also on behalf of their students. Therefore, you should always be mindful of your words and attitudes when communicating with other parents and teachers, as well as speaking in parent groups.
Zhang Xingxing's father's behavior is indeed commendable, but it is not very wise. Being too public, it will make the other parent feel that they are being despised, and the other party will also feel very aggrieved, and transfer the resentment to the primary school students, causing the child to alienate himself, and even ask his child not to play with the other party. Therefore, parents should not affect their children's normal communication because of a temporary quarrel.
There are huge differences in economic and educational philosophies in all families, but you must not impose your own ideas and attitudes on other parents. Don't think too much, everyone is equal, and besides, things are unpredictable, and maybe one day in the future, you need to trust those who turned a blind eye to you before.
Especially parents, since everyone is studying in the same class, don't cause estrangement between students because of their own personal behavior, otherwise it will seriously affect the learning environment of students.
The purpose of the Parent Group is to promote interaction between parents and teachers. Teachers can quickly relay information related to students to parents, while parents can share and exchange educational ideas and learn from the effective educational experiences of other group members.
Parents should make full use of the parent group and avoid discussing topics that are irrelevant or unimportant to the student so as not to interfere with the important information delivered by the teacher.
What's more, the parent-teacher group is not a place for parents to discuss, and what issues should be resolved privately rather than openly in the group. Not only does this not seem to be of high quality, but it also affects the atmosphere of the group and makes other parents feel overwhelmed.
Finally, the author advises parents to regulate their words and deeds and not to have a negative impact on students. Get along with each other in the parent group, learn from other people's educational concepts, take the essence of it, remove its dross, and choose an education method that is more suitable for you.
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