In fact, what you hear and see is a bureau.
The world is made up of two sets of orders, the first set of rules: fairness, justice, morality, and etiquette. The second set of rules: the struggle of interests hidden behind the scenes.
The morality of the first set of rules is appearance, and the interest of the second set of rules is reality.
Most of the knowledge we have been exposed to since childhood is the first set of superficial rules. And the calculations that people make in their hearts all the time are the second set of interest rules.
Masters use the first set of rules as a means to achieve the purpose of the second set of rules.
Almost everyone will put on a glossy moral coat and then do everything possible to benefit themselves. Moral rules, everyone puts on their lips; The rules of interest are kept in mind by everyone. So don't be fooled by the first set of rules, but use the second set of rules to see things clearly.
For example, we can't look at what a person says, but what a person does. The first set of rules is a façade, and you can't use it as a way to make a living and make a name for yourself. If you want to see through everyone's behavior, you must combine the second set of rules for analysis, which is the benefit analysis method.
Interests are the logic that governs the operation of human beings, and the interest analysis method will never fail.
If you want someone to help, you must first understand what I can offer you. Strangers will not have any other relationship with each other except interests, and money is the best expression.
The essence of society is exploitation.
You will notice that children from poor families are still living in poverty, it is very difficult to cross social classes, and the gap between rich and poor in society is widening.
Therefore, the goal of social education is not to make you an individual with an independent personality, nor to help you accumulate wealth, but to mold you into a submissive, obedient being, an ideal "worker".
To put it simply, it's a big factory, and after rounds of screening, it pushes you into society.
And society is a huge absorber, you are like a group of obedient "fuel", you are taken away from your value and energy, generating a lot of profits, so that the top people and giants can sit back and enjoy it.
Will those at the top go this way? Absolutely not.
It is precisely because there are more than 90% of the people at the bottom that less than 10% of the rich people are born.
The wealth of the rich is better than the labor of the poor, and the harder and more diligent the poor are, the richer the rich become, which is the so-called hard work to get rich.
In other words, 90% of hard-working people feed 10% of the rich who enjoy the fruits of it, and the purpose of the existence of these 90% of people is to make the 10% of people live better. And this 10% of people do their best to devise various rules and systems to restrain and control 90% of people.
Sounds painful, right.
Therefore, there are only two situations in which young people can make money:
First, with the accumulation of the family, which can provide you with sufficient capital, rich social experience and in-depth thinking to make money, you will naturally have a clear plan and money-making goals, know how to make money, and make money will become easy.
Second, young people who are constantly exploited and beaten by society, such as those from the bottom, are constantly denying their genes.
Poor families, unqualified parents, ordinary appearances, and the slander and ridicule of poor relatives. It is not easy for your parents to earn money, you have to study hard and be filial to them.
When you become an adult, you will be extremely disgusted with this sentence, you yourself are not good, you are poor, and you teach me a lesson, what qualifications do you have? Do you have the confidence to come from?
They will only find fault with you, appear to be a little higher than you, get a little superiority from you, and nothing else will help.
When you enter society, you will deeply feel the indifference of society and the cruelty of reality.
Young people who have just graduated are faced with the problem of survival first, and if they do not have the support of their families, they will soon lose the competition of their peers.
Newly entering society, young people are energetic, face-loving, and would rather go hungry than ask their families for money.
Interestingly, family members always ask if you have money, if you have enough to eat, a bunch of caring nonsense, but just don't give money.
I have a headache all day because of money, my life is tight, my vision is getting narrower, and my self-confidence is gradually disappearing.
On the other hand, society will ruthlessly squeeze and exploit you, all kinds of holidays, Double Eleven, 618, xx festivals, all kinds of discounts**, let you buy, buy, buy, go into debt, and become a puppet and slave of capital. All kinds of traps in society, fraud** are everywhere, and if you are not careful, you will fall into them.
Therefore, every day will be very painful, you can only barely get by, if you want to enjoy food or dress better, it is even more impossible, and the money earned is simply not enough to spend.
And he has no judgment, he is easy to be fooled by merchants, fall into the trap of consumerism, and waste his hard-earned money, and after a year, there are only a few thousand dollars left in the bank card.
When you return to your hometown, secular courtesies, wedding banquets, class reunions, continue to empty your wallet, and in addition, there are seven aunts and eight aunts bombardment, whether you have money or not, they will force you to get married and have children early.
It's a problem to feed yourself, and now you have to feed a family of three or four, and in a few years, it's terrible to think about, it doesn't give you a chance to breathe, and it exhausts you to death.
Therefore, the lives of young people nowadays are not like people at all, but more like animals.
In the context of family poverty, they are constantly facing the urging to marry and have children, which is not only a neglect of personal wishes, but more of a selfish desire to pursue social image and see grandchildren as soon as possible.
This phenomenon made me realize at the age of twenty that many times, people always put others first and ignore their own needs and feelings. This is not limited to friends, but even the closest family and partners.
Therefore, I am very well able to understand the suffering and pressure faced by young people today. I have come to understand that this is not entirely due to our individual inadequacy, but rather to the shared responsibilities of our families and society. For the poor at the bottom, it is almost impossible to change their fate by relying on their personal efforts, achieve a class jump, buy a house and a car, and pay a high bride price.
Struggling through countless setbacks and failures, we learn to be cruel to ourselves, because if we don't be cruel to ourselves, life will be even more cruel to us. If you don't go all out, if you don't do your best, how can you get rid of the shackles of poverty?
The harsh reality of society only reminds you that it's time to pay, and doesn't care if you have money, hunger, or can afford medical bills. As soon as you stop a little to rest, you will be ruthlessly exploited by society.
So when can we stop being exploited? Only when you start to give up kindness and start taking advantage of others.
When you no longer pursue fairness, stop believing in love, and begin to realize the cruel truth that this world is natural selection and survival of the fittest. In this world, if you want to survive, you must have thinking and strategies that surpass ordinary people, and simple efforts are far from enough.
The harder you work, the happier the capitalists are, they encourage you to work hard, consume luxuries, stimulate you to spend, but when you need money to start a business, you will find yourself with nothing.
In this world, it is difficult to survive with kindness and hard work alone. Only by thoroughly understanding the exploitation mechanism of society, choosing the right interpersonal relationships and action strategies, and taking courageous and decisive actions, can we find a way to survive.
Although this world is civilized and equal on the surface, it is actually an environment of survival of the fittest. In such a world, only the strong can seize resources, and civilization is nothing more than a cover for barbarism.
Social resources are limited, and all good things come through competition. Therefore, the weak must abandon the old notion of goodness and become strong in order to survive.
For the poor, earning money is the first priority for survival. When you're still in poverty, you shouldn't focus too much on fitness, travel, etc., because these pleasures are short-lived and don't solve the underlying problem.
Making money is the dignity of adults. Although it has been argued that life is not just about making money, there are many other pleasures, but for the poor, these fleeting pleasures cannot change their predicament.
Therefore, the key to changing one's destiny lies in taking courageous steps to change one's own future and that of one's family. And for those who look at it all, maintaining a "don't care" mindset is the key to winning the final victory.
It is unrealistic to expect morality and civility in society to prevail, and the truly wise know that what we need is not an equal world, but the ability to stand at the top of the food chain.
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