It's 2024 A.D., is it different where the Chinese New Year is? With the change of family structure, some habits should also change, and it is really wrong to talk about habits all the time! Keeping pace with the times is the right thing to do! Whether it is a child or a daughter, it is not easy to raise them, they are all a piece of meat on their parents, and there is no reason why they should be in their mother-in-law's house or their mother's house. Rotating once a year is the least respectful!
Most of the Spring Festival is back to my parents for the New Year, the family is reunited, our family has dragged children and daughters in recent years, are back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year, if my parents are still alive, it must be my husband to take the children to my parents' house, I stayed at my parents' house to accompany my parents for the New Year, married for many years, I feel that my parents' house is not their parents' house, awkward heart is not steady, my husband's family and my brother-in-law's family, usually although close, not much, relatively unfamiliar, alas, make do with it, three days and two days, get together for a long time, What about you, friends?
In the feudal era of the old society, women who married could not go back to their parents' homes for the New Year, because they were worried that she would not live in harmony with their in-laws' families, so they were not allowed to go home for the New Year. In this day and age, it's a bit too much to pay attention to. Especially for those who marry far away, miss their hometown and their parents, ancestors or relatives and friends, and usually have no time to work, so they have to wait for the Chinese New Year to come once, which is a normal thing. All customs are nonsense, obviously they just don't want to be treated, afraid of trouble, and selfish. The point is not a sibling problem, who is interfering, I think you know.
There are no in-laws and a lot of worries, every year my husband is arguing to go back to his parents' house, and he is reluctant to go back, his mother-in-law is good to him, hurts him and scolds me, I say that he is biological, I picked it up.
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