I always thought that I was still very young, and I felt that I was still a young man in my twenties, until my relatives chatted together to calculate the age during the Chinese New Year, and found that I was almost at the age of standing, and sighed that time is really flying, the years are traceless and ruthless, and I was awakened by reality in an instant.
Calm down and think about it and calculate, it's been nearly nine years since I graduated, and I think it's incredible, obviously I still have the feeling of just coming out of school, and I don't believe it and sent my finger again, it's been nine years. Looking back on my nine years, I concluded that it was still too comfortable, and to say that it was difficult to hear that I didn't want to make progress, just kept a stable job, and didn't notice the passage of time at all, and lost the best time to develop myself and learn knowledge.
and carefully calculated the various things in the past nine years, there were gains and losses. First of all, I got married, my wife was my high school classmate, from the third year of high school to the marriage, so the relationship was quite satisfactory, but the family did not start a business, just a job to support the family; I also have a share of my lovely daughter, who is truly the most precious gift from God.
What is lost? On the surface, it seems to be passable, the family is harmonious, the parents are in good health, and the job is stable. But deep pondering still loses a lot. First of all, I lost my momentum, and now I have long adapted to this comfortable life and work, and I have also been smoothed out by time; Secondly, who has lost their youth, who has not been young, and who does not miss youth?
Sometimes in the dead of night, I wonder what is the pursuit of human life? Rich? Machiavellian? Human? No matter what it is, it will disappear after a hundred years, maybe it is true as the lyrics say that it is plain. But this does not become a reason for us to be lazy and unmotivated, recently I have been thinking about the words "living in the present", since we come to the world to take a trip must have our social significance, the past is already the past, the future is too far away, only live in the present and do it in the present! Many years ago, I read a sentence in a book: "When you think it's late, it's the best time to start, it's never too late." I don't think it's too late for me to do anything, and now is the beginning of the best gift for my upcoming year.