There is nothing more dreading about life choices than giving up on yourself.
To give up means to lose confidence in life, to lose hope for the future, and to exist in this world like a walking corpse. Recently, our focus fell on Brother Dayi's daughter Zhu Xuemei. What was the choice she was facing, what was it that got her into this distressing predicament?
01 The beginning of life in the face of adversity.
Zhu Xuemei, that is, Zhu Zhiwen's eldest daughter. If her father hadn't become a star, she might have been an ordinary girl in obscurity. But poverty, low appearance, lack of culture and experience, these labels seem to indicate that she is destined to not have a good life. However, by chance in 2011, Zhu Zhiwen became the coat brother with the song "Rolling Yangtze River East Passing Water", and his family life has undergone earth-shaking changes.
02 Great wealth and uncontrolled life.
With the increase in her father's wealth, Zhu Xuemei had the opportunity to change her life. However, the reality is regrettable. Instead of putting her energy into learning and improving her charm, she was too addicted to "eating and drinking". In the first year of Brother Dayi's fame, he saved 16 million in the bank, but Zhu Xuemei and her younger brother completed a "transformation" in body shape and became a fat man of more than 200 pounds.
03 **Efforts and practical challenges.
Under the supervision of Brother Dayi and Sister-in-law Dayi, Zhu Xuemei walked into the center and worked hard to exercise. However, as the years passed, her changes attracted attention. In the ** of the market, Zhu Xuemei's figure is out of control, her upper limbs are stronger than before, and her image has changed significantly. This makes people wonder, can hard work overcome life?
04 Give up ** and live without moderation.
In Zhu Xuemei's **, her figure is out of control, and her upper limbs are stronger than before. Her appearance and dress are also troublesome, as if she has lost respect for herself. In the process of rushing to the market, she bought a lot of fried food, apparently gave up **, and had no moderation in her diet. This makes us wonder if there are times in life when we give up on our efforts because of a moment of indulgence.
05 Family education and fathers' responsibilities.
As a father, Brother Dayi has great wealth and fame. However, his children were not given the education and guidance they deserved. Although his son Zhu Xiaowei married twice early, he was idle and lacked the willingness to work. Her daughter, Zhu Xuemei, dropped out of school early in her studies and her eloquence was also poor. This makes people wonder if fathers are too busy and neglect to accompany and educate their children, and should they pay more attention to the family?
Although Brother Dayi is rich and famous, he seems to regard maintaining his own image as more important than educating his children. In his free time, he farms and builds houses, but the importance of family seems to be neglected. In rural areas, girls do not marry at the age of 25, perhaps not because they are ambitious, but because they cannot find a partner. Fathers should focus on the education of their children, because only when their children are strong is the greatest success of parents.
Zhu Xuemei's story tells us that giving up is not the way to solve the problem, but to avoid the dilemma. On the road to pursuing goals, difficulties and ** often exist, but perseverance and hard work can achieve real success. As a parent, accompanying and guiding your children is better than a busy career. And for everyone, bravely meet the challenges of life and do not give up easily, perhaps in order to discover a better future.