I'm here to talk about homely things
On the first day of school, I brought a big bag of food to school, all snacks, chocolate, plums, nuts, fruits, pastries, milk, etc.
These were bought for my son a year ago, but I bought too much, and now I bring them to the students, and we did well in the exam last semester, so we just rewarded them.
The students immediately cheered when they saw me carrying my handbag into the classroom, and the class representative couldn't help but say that they had taken the food and divided it, and they rushed to eat and laughed, and my heart was happy.
I like students, I like them very much, and I always want to make them happy. After 30 years as a teacher, one of the common ways I express my liking is to bring them delicious food, sometimes bought, sometimes made by myself.
Love is a two-way run, you are good to him, the children understand, and I have reaped more love in return. What I'm most proud of is that I didn't have to do a lot of homework in my class, but my grades were always at the top.
But I didn't expect that the happiness that had lasted for 30 years would have an accident this year.
Last night, a parent called me and asked, "Teacher Chang, did you bring something for the students to eat yesterday?"
yes, what's wrong?
Is the biscuit you brought expired, my son said that he started to have diarrhea after eating it, and he has had six or seven ...... since last night
Yes? I was startled, stunned for a long time before I reacted, and instinctively defended, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, but how do you prove that the child had diarrhea because he ate my biscuits?" A lot of my classmates ate cookies. I just bought it a few years ago, it is a regular product, ** it is not cheap, it can't expire so quickly......”
I raised my eyes and saw the packaging box of the two kinds of biscuits, checked the production date, and couldn't help but feel nervous——— it is indeed not expired, but it is not far from the expiration date, how can I not pay attention to it when I bought it!
I continued to apologize after telling the truth to the parents and said that I would bear the child's medical expenses.
No, please don't bring anything for the child to eat in the future, especially if you eat leftovers at home like this, and now the children are not short of food and drink......”
Parent** hung for a long time, and I seemed to hear the slap in the face, ahhh......h
I don't believe that children's diarrhea is caused by biscuits, but what if it is? Disbelieving and helpless, annoyed and angry, and panicked.
I thought of other classmates in the entanglement, so I sent a private message to the class representative and asked him to inquire in the group of classmates. I quickly received a reply saying that everything was fine and no problem, and told me that the classmate who had diarrhea ate a lot of things in self-study that night, and drank a bottle of Coke and a cup of instant coffee.
At that time, I wanted to send this information to the parents, but in the end, I forgot it.
It's hard to be calm, so I can only tell my husband that he said that I deserve it, and it's purely because I have nothing to do to bring humiliation on myself.
Thinking about it, there are many ways for teachers to care for and care for students, which can be influenced by learning, life, and spirituality, through words and actions, and should not be stimulated by substances, especially food.
Because, even if the quality of the food is fine, but the child's gastrointestinal constitution is different, in case someone is involved, it is really impossible to tell ......
Thinking further, everyone should understand their own obligations, and a teacher's obligation to students is to teach and educate people, preach and teach and solve doubts, and if you do these well, you will be a good teacher. Eating, drinking, and wearing these are the obligations of parents, and teachers do not have to cross the line.
Thinking about it, I have to be glad that nothing has happened in the previous 30 years. I came a little late for the first lesson of school, but after all, I came.