Cliff-like loss of contact Unbearable damage
Do you have the depth of connection with someone in that "honeymoon phase"? It is the kind of thinking that has nothing to say, nothing to talk about, and can provide good emotional value and extremely consistent with each other. However, because of something, from the beginning of close contact to the sudden interruption of contact, there is no intersection with each other, and after that, they do not communicate with each other, becoming the strangest familiar person?
Does the experience of falling off a cliff from the peak of dense connections make you uncomfortable???
In today's society, people are becoming more and more connected, and the development of communication tools allows people to stay connected anytime, anywhere. However, some people hurt others in the form of a cliff-like disconnection, bringing endless pain and distress to the other party.
A cliff-like loss of contact is a sudden loss of contact without any warning or explanation. This way of losing contact often brings great psychological pressure and uneasiness to the other party, making them feel neglected and helpless. Especially in modern society, people's demand for communication and socialization is getting higher and higher, and the cliff loss often causes irreparable damage to people.
Xiao Li is a young girl who has been dating her boyfriend for quite some time. However, her boyfriend often disappears suddenly for various reasons, does not reply to messages, and does not answer **, which makes Xiao Li feel very uneasy and helpless. She once tried to communicate with her boyfriend and ask him why he suddenly lost contact, but her boyfriend always prevaricated with various excuses, which made Xiao Li feel very disappointed and sad.
Losing contact with someone who has been hurt is often a very painful experience. They may keep calling, messaging, trying to contact each other, but never getting a response. This feeling of uncontrollability and helplessness can make them feel very anxious and fearful, and even doubt their own worth and meaning of existence.
For those who often hurt others by falling off a cliff, they may not realize the seriousness of the behavior. They may think that they are just enjoying their freedom or that they are dealing with some personal matter, and there is no need to explain it to the other person. However, they did not think about how much harm this behavior would bring to the other party.
If a person often hurts others by falling off a cliff, then he may lose a lot of important friends and loved ones. Because no one wants to associate with someone who is irresponsible and disrespectful. Moreover, this kind of behavior will also bring negative emotional and psychological burdens to oneself, affecting one's life and work.
Therefore, we should try to avoid hurting others in a precipitous way. If we have something to deal with or need to be alone for a while, we can tell the other person our thoughts and plans in advance so that the other person can have a mental preparation. At the same time, we should also respond to each other's messages and ** as much as possible, so that the other party can feel our care and attention.
In short, a cliff-like loss of contact is a very irresponsible behavior that will cause irreparable harm to others. We should respect the feelings and needs of others, and maintain good communication and connection as much as possible to make our relationship healthier and more stable.
In all fairness, I am actually one such person and need to reflect. In the past, there have been behaviors of losing contact with others off a cliff, and I can feel the helplessness and hurt of others, which is very undeserved. In fact, people who actively lose contact with each other have a commonality, that is, they are sensitive and vulnerable, once the relationship between the two parties encounters a crisis or a crack is suitable, this kind of person quickly makes irrational behavior, in fact, it is a way to protect his soul through this behavior, in fact, it is also a manifestation of vulnerability, and the emotions in it are also mixed with inferiority and cowardice.
Some people look very strong, but they are actually very immature inside.
It's better to be as mature as possible, and leave more kindness and warmth on the road of life, so that this life is not in vain.
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