In a rural area in Anhui Province, an old father fell to the ground crying in pain because his three sons had not yet started a family, and his children complained that he had no money to buy a house. The sons stood in front of him and angrily accused him of not paying to help them buy a house, so they couldn't find a partner. The old father's heart was as painful as a knife, and how he hoped that he could provide better living conditions for his children so that they could start a family as soon as possible.
In this society, high housing prices and high bride prices have become a difficult problem for young people to marry. Many families do not hesitate to empty the savings of several generations in order to marry their children. In the blind date market, if there is no house, there will not even be a matchmaker to help introduce the partner. Especially in rural families, if there are many brothers in the family, girls are not willing to marry them at all if there are no good conditions.
The old father is well aware of these practical problems, and how much he hopes to provide better living conditions for his children, so that they can start a family as soon as possible. He had mixed feelings in his heart, on the one hand, his own helplessness and sadness, and on the other hand, he also deeply felt that his sons' accusations pierced his heart. He tried his best to help the children, but reality left him powerless.
In rural areas, it is no longer easy for the elderly to raise their children. Children should work their own, instead of blaming their parents for not providing better living conditions. While some families can afford to buy a house, it is through generations of hard work and savings. Children should work their own, rather than putting the blame on their parents.
Different classes have different things. It is not easy for rural parents to raise their children, and it is the greatest irony to complain about their parents' lack of ability as children. In many fourth- and fifth-tier cities, as long as the children are willing to work their own, parents can afford to buy a house with appropriate help. Therefore, as an adult, when complaining about your parents, you should first reflect on whether you have done your best.
Some people may think that it is not easy for rural parents to raise their children, and it is infuriating to complain about their parents' incompetence. After all, our parents have given a lot in silence, they have never said they love us, but they have already given us their best. The example of a friend around him also proves this, although his family conditions are not good, he has negotiated a partner outside through his own efforts and successfully married. This shows that when many things happen, don't blame others or blame yourself for being born at the bottom, but consider your own reasons. Finding a daughter-in-law is not only based on hard conditions, but also a common problem for many people due to insufficient emotional intelligence.
In today's society, not only young people are under great pressure, but also parents are under great pressure. To be clear: it's not that it's difficult to marry a daughter-in-law now, it's that there are too few people with a heart. As long as the son is motivated, it will not be too difficult to find a daughter-in-law. At all times, parents should cultivate their children's sense of responsibility. No matter how much you give, if you don't have the right three views, you will lose one day. The greatest pride of being a parent is not how much property is left to the child, but when the parents are gone, the children can still live in peace, which is the meaning of life.