I like a line from "Mrs. Meso":
"For those who make things difficult for me, if they have to defeat them for them to relent, then let them continue to make things difficult.
Because when I step on a bigger stage, they are automatically replaced by a clapping audience. ”
The most stupid thing for a person is to mistreat his time and energy, and then he is always easy to be consumed, dragged down, and ruined by some unworthy people and things.
People who really have a big picture must have been focusing on how to achieve themselves.
And these people always believe that only by enlarging the pattern and constantly perfecting themselves can they finally strengthen themselves and achieve themselves.
Enlarge the pattern and break things away
In fact, when a person's pattern becomes bigger and bigger, they will look down on their relationships with others.
After all, people can't live without others, because no one can really be isolated from this world.
However, we must also understand that human beings are also lonely by nature.
It's like not all fish will live in the same water, we can only look down on others, evaluate and discuss.
Then, take the initiative to stay away from stumbling and entanglement with broken things and broken people, so that we can collide with good luck.
Writer Zhou Guoping said:"When a person devotes all his energy to commenting on the rights and wrongs of small things, he has no strength to care about important things. ”
To put it bluntly, a person can only achieve himself in the end by putting his or her important energy, time, and energy into more important things.
Enlarge our own pattern, all things, no matter good or bad, big or small, we can calmly look down and learn to look down.
In this way, in reality, let yourself live more soberly, and let yourself live more transparently, understand what kind of things you can choose to do, and what you resolutely don't do.
When we can ensure that we are always doing the right thing, doing the right thing, then gradually we will have more possibilities in life.
At the very least, we can accumulate more experience and lessons, and then we will be better able to go through this life.
Life is short, and the pattern should be big
Life is short, and we must learn to cherish our present moment.
After all, we can only live in the moment, and we can only create value in the moment.
Many times, it is precisely because a person's vision is too short-sighted and his ability is too shallow, so when facing bad things that happen and facing some bad people, he will become angry and tormented by all kinds of negative emotions.
In fact, a person has a small pattern, so life will be miserable, and it is precisely because the pattern is not big that there are all kinds of emotions, and they will rise up inexplicably.
In the end, I have to spend more energy and thought, constantly solving all kinds of problems and troubles, causing myself to be exhausted, and even finally choose to break the jar.
Feng Tang once said,There is too little time, too many fun things, and from the perspective of respecting life, there is no need to dwell on it.
Life is short, we must learn to experience the world well in the limited years, and we should be kind to ourselves.
Then we will find that when we are improving ourselves and reaping happiness, our current state of mind must be happy and content.
Enlarge the pattern and achieve yourself
An important reason for a person to enlarge the pattern is when a person constantly improves his cognition, strengthens his ability, and even becomes independent and confident.
So, no matter what kind of choice you make, there is actually a kind of logical self-consistency behind it, and you can indeed make yourself more and more fulfilled and the spiritual world more and more abundant through personal dedication and growth.
When a person enlarges the pattern, he is actually constantly strengthening himself and tempering himself, but he is also drawing energy and nutrients from the outside.
Then, when we become more and more powerful and capable, the broken things will naturally stay away from us, and we will go more steadily, easily, self-satisfied, and even more and more smoothly.
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