"Sometimes I'm not the protagonist, a lot of things don't have the so-called empathy, and when it's really your turn, you won't really know what she's been through. ”When I was young,In fact, I can't understand Dream of Red Mansions at all, I just feel that it is a gorgeous but complicated strange world, although this is the case, I still insisted on watching the whole play.
Those loves, loves, to be honest, at that age, I don't seem to understand, and a lot of things after reading italso gradually disappeared as the TV series came to an end
There are too many characters in the play, but I have to admit that the whole person's heart was extremely shocked after watching it at that time, except that I couldn't understand the plot at the timeOther aspects can definitely be considered a treat
I used to think that Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu were true love, I think love should be like this, but now that I look at it, this sentence is simply ridiculous.
Even feels that Jia Baoyu's existence is insulting the definition of "true love", and some people may refute itBut there are some things that can't be changed
When did Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu find out that they liked each other?
I don't know if you have found such an unwritten social phenomenon, that is, many girls' parents are reluctant to let them have excessive contact with boys when they are young, and even do not allow them to play with boys.
It really is a way to protect your childBut there is another fact that stands out in this way, that is, between mentally immature children, too much time will produce superfluous feelings.
Obviously, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu in the play are like this.
At that time, Lin Daiyu had just entered Jiafu, and the two of them happened to live in a courtyardThis also makes it possible for two people to come into contact with each other from time to time
Jia Baoyu has always had a good impression of beautiful people, and when she saw Lin Daiyu looking like this, she saw Lin Daiyu look like thiseven took the initiative to have more contacts with Lin Daiyu
This is the age when the spring heart sprouts,This should resonate with everyone, the two will inevitably go further on the basis of friends and playmates.
Lin Daiyu is an extremely sensitive personThis can be seen in many ways, due to physical reasons she rarely goes out at times.
So in her world,Jia Baoyu accounted for a large part, most women are compromised in love, and they are also paranoid.
Although she is cute, she is cuteBut there are a lot of shortcomings in the personality, these audiences should have discovered it when watching the drama, but these small problems in the eyes of others don't feel anything in Baoyu's eyes.
The relationship between the two people in the early stage is indeed enviableBaoyu really spoiled him, Sister Lin, which also gave Lin Daiyu an illusion that Jia Baoyu felt the same way for her in her heart.
But is that really the case?
Yes and no,Lin Daiyu in Jia Baoyu's heart does occupy a great position, is the person Jia Baoyu puts on the tip of her heart, but she is not the only person in Jia Baoyu's heart.
It's like, I love you the most, but I also love other peopleThe same makes people feel depressed and disgusting
Jia Baoyu has been very "flowery" since he was a child, like some inappropriate men now, but whenever you see a woman with some looks, you want to meet it and flirt with it.
I don't know if it's like this to show their own charm or whatI always like to pull and pull with other women, not caring about the feelings of others.
Lin Daiyu has always been in such a situation, as I said earlier, her personality is very awkward, but she is really smart, although she doesn't often go out and walk aroundBut of course she knew that there were countless flowers around Jia Baoyu
Why many women are often angry in love, or the most simple and direct reason for being jealous and losing their minds is that their loved ones have never realized what security is.
Those love words that they think they will only say to themselves,As everyone knows, I have said it thousands of times in front of other women
This is the inferior nature of men since ancient times, they are very much enjoying the pursuit of people who do not belong to them, and their self-righteous values are mostly reflected in these.
To be honest, Jia Baoyu swore a lot in front of Lin Daiyu, and Lin Daiyu was happy at first, because this was the biggest difference between her and others, and she found out laterJia Baoyu has said something similar more than once, and certainly not just her.
Lin Daiyu's physical condition is not a matter of one or two days, and it is also because of thisFrail and sickly became synonymous with her very early on
In fact, at that time, many viewers in front of the screen were always in a ball in their heartsI was always worried that Lin Daiyu would go like this, or the disease will be aggravated and the bones of the body will be worse.
The story in the world of Red Mansions is wonderful, for example, they are never as bland and monotonous as everyone else's life, the story line of Baoyu Daiyu has been moving forward, and other people's have not paused.
A lot more happened laterJia Baoyu is a person with a very low ability to bear, after all, he has been a treasure in everyone's eyes since he was a child, and he has passed smoothly for many years.
But people can't guarantee that they will stay in a safe haven for the rest of their lives, and there are some things that must be faced, but Baoyu still can't accept it, so he has mental problems.
In ancient times, people were superstitious, The people of Jiafu are also like this, seeing Baoyu's appearance, they are very distressed, one is afraid that Baoyu will get better, but they are worried that there will be some accidents.
So they agreed that Baoyu would be able to rejoice if she married a daughter-in-law, and many people took it for granted that the candidate for this bride must be Lin DaiyuAfter all, Jia Baoyu's love for her is in everyone's eyes
But don't forget that Lin Daiyu's body is getting worse day by day, the people of Jiafu are definitely unwilling to let Jia Baoyu marry another sick man, so they called out and arranged a good show.
Later, Xue Baochai married Jia Baoyu, in fact, in this process, Jia Baoyu was completely unaware, because in the words that others said to him,The person he wants to marry has always been Lin Daiyu
Until the moment he lifted the hijab,Only then did he learn that his bride had been dropped, but he didn't do much about it, maybe the consciousness in his mind was still not clear enough.
How ironic, that is, on the day when Lin Daiyu's sweetheart got married and had someone elseLin Daiyu couldn't withstand this blow, and eventually passed away.
You have to say that Baoyu has no love for Lin DaiyuIt was absolutely impossible, and he was sad when he learned the facts, but he quickly returned to normal.
This was clearly reflected after he and Xue Baochai officially lived, there were so many people around him, and she Lin Daiyu was just a little special.
For Jia Baoyu, she is only gone, there may be regrets, it will be very sad, but there is no one who can not be replaced, if he really loves Daiyu enoughLater, there will be no talk of Baochai's pregnancy
The existence of someone may have a very special meaning, but even if it is lost, it is not a big dealIt's time to move forward, or to move forward