Reading guide: As the old saying goes, "If you don't bring three fruits to the grave, you won't cause disasters at home", which three fruits do you not bring to the grave? What makes sense?
In the blink of an eye, half of the wax moon has passed, in the days when the year is approaching, according to the old traditions and customs, there are children of the deceased old people, they will go to the grave of the deceased old people in the days when the year is approaching, and the grave begins to pay tribute to the deceased old people, and then put some wine and drinks, if the deceased old man has the habit of smoking before his death, he must also put a box of cigarettes, and then light three incense sticks.
To go to the grave of the deceased old man, it is to express the nostalgia of the deceased old man, and also to express the filial piety of the deceased old man, but the fruit of the deceased old man is also particular, which is not the old saying in the countryside "go to the grave without five fruits, and do not cause disasters at home", which five fruits are not brought specifically? Listen to me explain.
1. No rotten fruits
Before the Spring Festival, we should worship our ancestors, or go to the grave of the deceased elderly, and the fruits brought to the grave should pay attention to the fresh fruits of the season, rather than some rotten fruits, such fruits to worship our ancestors, or to worship the old people who have passed away, which is a kind of ancestors who have no filial piety and are insulting to themselves.
So when we buy fruit, pick some fresh fruits, if we are afraid of rotting the fruit, we will buy fruit on the day of worshiping our ancestors or the deceased elderly, so that the fruit will not rot.
2. Don't bring fruit from others
As the New Year approaches, a relative or friend has begun to visit the door, and it is inevitable to bring some fruit cakes, and these fruit cakes can not be eaten, and at the end of the year, they worship the ancestors, or bring tribute to the grave of their deceased elderly, so they want to bring these pastries and fruits given by others.
This is an act of unfilial piety, because the fruits and cakes bought by others are honored by relatives, and if these fruits are taken to the ancestors and used in the grave of the deceased, it is an unlucky act.
Therefore, we use the money we earn to buy fresh fruits and pastries for our ancestors or the elderly who have passed away, so that we can do our filial piety.
1. Do not bring unlucky fruits
When we pay homage to our ancestors or go to the grave of the deceased, we can choose three kinds of fruits: apples, bananas, and pastries, and if we choose some unlucky fruits, we will be laughed at by others.
Unlucky hollow fruits, such as cantaloupe, melon and other fruits, are hollow inside, and taking this kind of fruit to the grave will be laughed at by outsiders for having no intention of worshipping, or no filial piety, so you should carefully consider this when choosing fruits.
In conclusion, the Spring Festival is already a countdown, and in this busy day, people should not forget to worship their ancestors and choose some fruits with good meanings for them, which will also benefit our children and grandchildren.
There are descendants of the deceased elderly, they will go to the grave of the deceased old man in the day when the year is approaching, but while preparing tribute, remember which auspicious fruits to want, so as not to be laughed at by others for not being filial, and it will also affect their descendants not being filial.
There is an old saying that filial piety is a matter of passing on from generation to generation, if your own generation honors your parents, you will also get the filial piety of your children, do you think I am right?