When I read this submission, I really feel sorry for this brother-in-law, my husband is seriously ill, and maybe it can't be cured, leaving two young children who are minors, and she can only rely on her to grow up alone in the future. But he didn't care about his mother and sister, when he was sick, he contributed money and efforts, and his mother and sister also contributed 200,000 yuan to the house he bought before marriage, and he couldn't leave it all to his brother-in-law and children, if his brother insisted on deciding to leave all the house to his brother-in-law, then she would have to return the 820,000 that belonged to them.
So, how did the 820,000 come from? My younger brother has been sick all these years, my mother has taken 70,000 yuan, and my sister has taken another 150,000 yuan, so it is already 220,000 here; There is also the down payment for the house bought before marriage, the sister paid 100,000, and then the in-laws also paid 100,000, and the younger brother himself paid 100,000, and the sister and mother here are a total of 200,000, but now the house price has doubled, so the money they paid at that time should also be doubled, then here is 400,000; Plus the previous one is 620,000. In the end, there is a sum of money, which is the cost of the mother helping them take care of the children over the years, and the two children are 200,000 yuan for more than ten years; These three sums of money add up to 820,000.
Of course, if we don't talk about whether the money is reasonable or not, the current woman who has lost her husband is already very pitiful, and suddenly has more than 800,000 yuan in arrears, and she is also carrying two minor children, so how should she live in the future? If you really want to repay the 820,000, then the brother-in-law has to sell the house, but if the house is sold, where will she live with her two children? What did this sister and mother-in-law think? Just force your daughter-in-law like this? How can you be ruthless? After all, she is also the mother of her grandchildren, is it completely okay if her son is gone?
Let's take a look at how many of the 820,000 are reasonable and how many are unreasonable! The 150,000 yuan for treatment of illness taken by my sister should be repaid, and as for the 70,000 yuan for my mother, should my mother pay back for her own son's treatment? When it comes to the down payment for buying a house, it stands to reason that they do have a share in this house, but it was more than ten years ago, and there is no proof of payment, there is no evidence, and the name of the younger brother is only written on the real estate certificate, and the house belongs to the younger brother, so he can divide it as he wants. Besides, after so many years, why didn't they ask him to pay back the money when his brother was in good health, and they had to wait for his brother's absence to ask for this money? Is this an unbelievable bully!
In the end, it is the 200,000 with children, and it is really an eye-opener to live for 30 years! Are you embarrassed to ask for this kind of money? You can not help bring it from the beginning, if you bring it and ask for money, you have to say okay at the beginning, ask your son to give you money, instead of settling this kind of account with your daughter-in-law after your son dies, why is it that your son is not a grandchild if he has no grandchildren? This reckoning shows that this eldest sister and mother-in-law really don't treat their daughter-in-law as their own at all.
The eldest sister who finally submitted the article also added: The younger sister-in-law did not agree to give 820,000 yuan to their mother and daughter after selling the house on the grounds that the children were still young and wanted to live and study, and she only admitted to repaying them 220,000 yuan for medical expenses, but the money in the family has been spent in order to treat her brother over the years, and the 220,000 yuan can only be returned to you in installments, and 20,000 yuan per year.
The younger sister-in-law has already regressed, but the eldest sister said, "Who will wait for her to installment, if she doesn't give this money, then we will go to her unit to make trouble, go to her children's school to make trouble, until she gives us the money!" ”
Oh my God, you still have to go to your child's school to make trouble? Isn't the child your own niece? Aren't they your loved ones? Isn't that afraid of affecting the child? I'm really strange, this eldest sister is willing to pay for her brother's house and treatment, but in the end, why does her brother's child seem to be nothing in her eyes? Is it because my brother is gone, so I think it doesn't matter?
Although I feel very sorry for this brother-in-law, but think about it from another perspective, this sister and mother are also quite pitiful, I don't know if you have found out that this sister's behavior belongs to a standard brother demon, for her brother she has no hesitation, if it weren't for her brother's death, she probably would never mention the matter of repaying the money, and their mother, for the sake of her son, there is no money left for the age of pension.
In the final analysis, it is still this incompetent brother who is a son, and when he is dying, he only considers that his wife and children do not take care of his sister and mother at all! Especially the old mother is in a situation where she has no house, no deposit and no income after losing her son, of course, he thinks that his mother has his sister to take care of him, and he can rest assured in the rest of his life. This is a habit that he does not have to bear, he does not worry about his mother's pension, and leaves his mother to his sister, which is also his last request for his sister.
And when netizens saw the submission, they also suggested that my sister should get her money back, as for your mother's share, she should give it for her son, she should be a mother, if she is not willing to fight for you, don't worry ......about it”
In the end, someone said, "This house is indeed not my brother's own money, don't let my sister and mother pay for it, if I am sick, I want my sister and mother to pay for treatment, and the house will be given to my wife and children, and the abacus is really loud." ”
In my opinion: In fact, these three women are quite pitiful and difficult, but anyway, the family is still a family, and when the children are older, they will call their aunts and grandmothers, do they really not care about it at all? Therefore, for the sake of the children, we should still talk about it well, discuss it well, and don't make trouble to the point where we can't clean it up. When a daughter-in-law should also think about her mother-in-law, her son is gone, the house is gone, the savings are gone, it is impossible to sweep the floor and spread it for others? You have to give someone an explanation.
In fact, I think netizens are right, the house should be transferred to the children, so it is estimated that my sister and mother-in-law will be more relieved, and the conflict will be eased. So what do you think about this? Hotspot Engine Program