According to Gale News, the latest progress of the "engagement case" in Yanggao, Datong, Shanxi, the man filed a civil lawsuit with the Yanggao County Court, requiring the defendant woman to register her marriage in accordance with the "Engagement Bride Price Agreement".
If the defendant refuses to do so, the court is requested to order the defendant to immediately return the 1180,000 bride price, including 100,000 yuan in cash, two rings, expenses, etc., and the defendant is required to bear all the case acceptance fees.
The man claimed that although the defendant did not live with him, the woman often went to the man's marriage room in a community in Yanggao County to rest, and frequently engaged in extremely intimate acts and behaviors.
The girl's mother was very incomprehensible: "At that time, he had already given my daughter **, wouldn't it be right to give her a name?" She is 24 years old, why can't she give her a name? Now to be like this, is this possible? ”
Regarding Xi Moumou's proposal to return the bride price if he did not get married, the mother disdainfully said that the other party would return the bride price if he wanted it. "He wants his money, I want the loss fee for cyberbullying, I want them to apologize to my child online, and return my daughter's innocence, I don't want 1 cent of the money. ”
Netizens also expressed their opinions, and some netizens said: "How will this woman get married in the future?" And do you have to sign an agreement to get engaged? "No one will dare to introduce this girl to a hundred miles in the future".
The woman trembled after three years", "Please don't push others too far, people are crazy and have goods", "Typical fairy jumps", "Who dares to ask for this girl in the future, don't kiss the woman if you have a marriage certificate in the future".
has sent the fiancé to prison, regardless of whether there is ** behavior, the bride price must be pushed to others", "The man is in prison, the woman returns the bride price, there is no conflict at all"...
Some netizens also said: "It's not easy for this woman to shoot behind, why make such an embarrassing fuss!" A lose-lose situation", "why should the woman wait until the lawsuit to return the bride price".
Can you still apply to the court for marriage registration? It's really funny in the world", "In essence, the woman thought about the man's routine from the beginning, but the man was stupid enough to be fooled".
Why do you feel that the woman's mother is crazy", "What is this woman's intention? ", the marriage has been broken by this generation, and it will slowly disappear in the future", "After both loses, the girl will be lonely and grow old"...
Some netizens said: "Do you want to report to the police uncle if you make love with your wife in the future!" I'm afraid that I will be arrested one day", "What does it mean to return the bride price?" The woman's illegal gains should be returned on her own initiative! ”
Shouldn't you take the initiative to retreat? ", it's not a marriage at all, it's clearly a deal", "The woman's family made a good calculation, and sent the man in and got money for himself." Since you can't get married, you have to return the bride price, not to mention that there is an agreement", "This is a complete routine, and the woman never thought about getting married."
Before the woman's mother said that she wanted to get married as soon as possible because she wanted to get the money and the house as soon as possible, but she didn't expect to encounter an uncompromising one, and now the man asks for marriage and the woman refuses because she didn't get the money", "The agreement has been signed, and it is indeed talking about business!" Will the man solve everything with lynching after he comes out? ”.
Personally, I believe that if the man is sentenced to **, whether he is "jumped by an immortal" or not, the determination of the law focuses on factual evidence, which shows that the chain of facts and evidence of ** is perfect, and there is little controversy at this point.
Everyone's controversy mainly focuses on the aspect of "marriage sale", the two parties got acquainted through matchmaking, the acquaintance time was very short, and the emotional foundation was not solid, so they hurriedly got engaged, and then made "** such a play, and then the two sides did not compromise with each other, it is inevitable that people will not feel that they are playing "fairy jump".
Personally, I believe that the purpose of marriage is the union of two people on the basis of affection, and the union of the families of both parties should be based on happiness as the starting point and the end point. There are several key issues involved:
First, should I ask for a bride price? If the economic conditions allow, of course, there is no need to say, if the economy is difficult, it should not be a bride price, and if the man goes bankrupt after getting married, will he be happy?
Second, did the woman win the bride price in this case? For a girl, a lifetime of happiness often lies in marriage, and now her reputation has been discredited and has spread all over the Internet.
It must have become a household name in the local area, how to look up and see people in the local area, and it is inevitable that the future life will live under people's discussions and strange eyes, and happiness is impossible to talk about.
The man and the woman originally compromised with each other, and the marriage was over, and if there was no emotion, it might be possible to achieve positive results, but now both sides are defeated, the man is imprisoned, the woman's ugly reputation is far and wide, and the woman's loss may be much greater.
Third, can men and women be happy if they compromise now? Presumably not, the two sides have already formed a deep hatred, even if they compromise, they will live under great pressure, the two sides have no emotional foundation, and the rest is hatred, and it is obviously too late to compromise, and it is impossible.
Therefore, since the defeat of both parties is irreparable, what can be done is to stop the loss in time.
Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, do not talk about the continued deepening of contradictions, do not continue to perpetuate contradictions, otherwise, it is very likely to lead to more tragic tragedies, which is completely unnecessary. It's already a tragedy, and if you add tragedy to the tragedy, it will be heavy.