Text: Zhang Chenxi.
In this world, there has never been reconciliation, not as before.
It's like a broken mirror can't be reunited, even if it's put back together, but a broken mirror can't reflect the original appearance.
The relationship between people is the same, so delicate.
Whether it's love, friendship or family affection, once there is a gap in each other's hearts, it is really difficult to get closer.
This estrangement may be due to misunderstanding, perhaps because of suspicion, or because of the passage of time and the changes in life.
But in any case, once generated, it is difficult to eliminate.
The estrangement is an invisible wall between the two people, making the two people who were originally close gradually drift apart.
It is different from ordinary contradictions, which may be resolved through communication and understanding, while estrangement is like a rift deep in the heart, which is difficult to repair.
When you trust someone, you can't help but want to talk to them and share anything with them.
And when there is a barrier, you don't want to say anything, you don't have the slightest desire to talk, although you know that it will be bad, but you can't convince yourself.
Sometimes, when a word or an event touches you, you will unconsciously bring up the old things and reopen the scars, making each other both embarrassed and painful.
Some things happen just as they happen, and no matter how hard you try, you can't do it without any guilt and turn a blind eye.
As long as you think of this estrangement, you will feel that this hurdle in your heart is difficult to overcome.
People who are estranged, even if they stand in front of each other, it seems that they are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers.
They may still be polite and smiling on the surface, but deep down they have built a high wall.
This wall blocked the trust and closeness between each other, making the two people who were originally close become like strangers.
People are like that, when trust is destroyed, it is difficult to get close to the same as before.
Because it is too close, it will be easy to be hurt; Because you care too much, it will be difficult to let go.
Any relationship is fragile and shattered at the first blow.
Once a misunderstanding arises, it is difficult to unravel it; Once trust is destroyed, it is difficult to re-establish it.
No matter how good a friend is, he will be torn out over one thing, and even the best partner will part ways because of a problem.
What we have to do is to cherish and care for the relationships we already have, and not to trample on and destroy them wantonly. Don't wait until you're unhappy to get it back, and don't wait until you've lost it to know your regrets.
Because once there is a gap between people's hearts, they can no longer get close.
In this world, there is nothing more precious than the emotional connection between people.
May we all treat everyone close to us sincerely and attentively, exchange hearts for hearts, and sincerely maintain our relationships with each other.
Because once there is a barrier, there is no way to get closer.
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